Veteran’s Day is soon approaching and there are many restaurants and companies who want to thank our veterans by providing them with discounts or a free meal. To those companies offering veterans a free meal or discount, the military community gives a collective thanks!
Our goal is to share as many of these free meals and discounts with our military veterans and we will update this page as soon as new information becomes available.
2011 Veteran’s Day Free Meals and Discounts
Two notes before jumping in:
* Proof of Military Service. First, most companies require some form of military ID – including a U.S. Uniform Services ID Card (active/reserve/retired), Current Leave and Earnings Statement (LES), Photograph in uniform, be wearing uniform (if your service permits), Veterans Organization Card (e.g., American Legion and VFW), DD214, discharge paperwork, or other form of identification. Other restaurants and companies may only require a photo of you in uniform, or go by the honor system.
* Participation. Second, always call ahead to verify locations, times, and participation. Many of the listed companies are franchises and may have different policies. We will do our best to keep this page updated as we find new info.
Sunday, November 6, 2011
Saturday, November 5, 2011
Veterans die every 80 minutes from suicide.
In an alarming report, the VA has determined that veterans are dying in large numbers daily due to suicide. Despite the Veteran's Administration's best efforts to combat suicide in veterans, it seems that they are losing the fight in suicide prevention. Currently there are increased mental health services available to veterans but this suicide rate may raise the question as to whether these services are helpful enough to the veterans that they serve.
Veterans have traditionally had higher rates of suicide than their non military serving counterparts. Clearly, the recent wars have impacted these figures as many veterans are returning from war scarred physically and mentally by the combat experience that they had. It is estimated by many studies that the PTSD rate may be as high as 30% in veterans of the wars in the Middle East.
If you are a veteran and you are going through an emotional crisis. Please try the VA's hotline for help.
1-800-273-8255(TALK)
Veterans have traditionally had higher rates of suicide than their non military serving counterparts. Clearly, the recent wars have impacted these figures as many veterans are returning from war scarred physically and mentally by the combat experience that they had. It is estimated by many studies that the PTSD rate may be as high as 30% in veterans of the wars in the Middle East.
If you are a veteran and you are going through an emotional crisis. Please try the VA's hotline for help.
1-800-273-8255(TALK)
Post Traumatic Stress Disorder to be renamed in the military?
This week some army top brass has suggested that PTSD should be renamed to PTSI. Instead of referring to post traumatic stress as a disorder, he has proposed that it be classified as an injury instead. He insists that calling the disability "post traumatic stress injury" will lead to an increase in troops and veterans seeking help for the ailment. As of now about 30% of all veterans that served in a recent combat zone are suffering from post traumatic stress disorder. This amounts to about 15% of troops seeking actual medical intervention for PTSD.
Post traumatic stress disorder is a chronic illness and the quicker the patient receives help for the condition, lowers the chances of it becoming a lifelong affliction. There are many barriers preventing an active duty soldier or Marine from seeking help. The most troubling obstacle is that of the social stigma that mental illness holds for the afflicted. A Marine or soldier may hide his or her symptoms to the best of their abilities, despite showing a drop in performance. All this is typically done to protect their careers because many feel that having PTSD will be a career ending experience. Or they fear that they will be seen as crazy and be isolated from their peers.
Will reclassifying PTSD as PTSI lead to an increase in troops seeking help? I think not. I believe that this will not have much an effect on PTSD diagnosis rates. The label and packaging of this will change but the contents of the box remain the same. The only lasting help that can be provided is through educating society on mental health in hope that the stigma changes. People feel socially uncomfortable being labeled depressed, anxious, bipolar and so on. If we can educate society we will create supportive environment for all that suffer from mental illness.
So perhaps what is needed in the military is an increase in education on PTSD and TBI. I think the troops need to be reassured that their careers will not end as a result of revealing post traumatic stress disorder to their medical staff. Only then will we see an increase of people coming forward and discussing their symptom with doctors.
Post traumatic stress disorder is a chronic illness and the quicker the patient receives help for the condition, lowers the chances of it becoming a lifelong affliction. There are many barriers preventing an active duty soldier or Marine from seeking help. The most troubling obstacle is that of the social stigma that mental illness holds for the afflicted. A Marine or soldier may hide his or her symptoms to the best of their abilities, despite showing a drop in performance. All this is typically done to protect their careers because many feel that having PTSD will be a career ending experience. Or they fear that they will be seen as crazy and be isolated from their peers.
Will reclassifying PTSD as PTSI lead to an increase in troops seeking help? I think not. I believe that this will not have much an effect on PTSD diagnosis rates. The label and packaging of this will change but the contents of the box remain the same. The only lasting help that can be provided is through educating society on mental health in hope that the stigma changes. People feel socially uncomfortable being labeled depressed, anxious, bipolar and so on. If we can educate society we will create supportive environment for all that suffer from mental illness.
So perhaps what is needed in the military is an increase in education on PTSD and TBI. I think the troops need to be reassured that their careers will not end as a result of revealing post traumatic stress disorder to their medical staff. Only then will we see an increase of people coming forward and discussing their symptom with doctors.
Saturday, October 22, 2011
Free Flu Shots for Veterans
The Department of Veteran Affairs is urging all veterans to get their annual flu shot. If you are veteran you can go to your nearest VA medical facility to receive the flu shot. If you are unsure of where your nearest VA facility is, then check this link to locate one.
Veteran's Medical Center Locator
Veteran's Medical Center Locator
Friday, October 21, 2011
What is a veteran?
I remember going to a recent family function a few years ago in Ohio. I was there with my uncle and he is probably the biggest fan of my military service. He was introducing me to some people we didn't know. He said to one couple, "This is my nephew and he is a vet!" The man asked my uncle, "Oh that's great! What is his specialty? Dogs or Cats?" We nearly rolled on the floor laughing at this. I couldn't tell if the guy was being serious in his question or not. My Uncle recovered and finally said, "He is a veteran of the war in Afghanistan."
So this brings me to the question of this blog post today. What is a veteran? I will give you my answer but your answers to the question might differ.
An American veteran is a man or a woman that served in the Armed Forces. This person could have been a Navy SEAL, an airplane mechanic, a cook, a sailor that cleans a ship all day, and accounting clerk in the army. These are all examples of veterans.
A veteran may have gone to war. The war experience is different for all veterans. A veteran may have kicked down doors in Iraq and may have search buildings room to room for the enemy. A veteran may have killed many enemy troops during a war but may not ever talk about it. Likewise, a veteran may have gone to battle, with rifle in hand and eyes wide open, only to find that there was no fight, that the enemy surrendered, or that the enemy was no where to be found. A veteran may have provided medical care to wounded troops, or may have typed on a computer during a war instead of pulling a trigger.
Despite what the veteran did, no matter what the job, they participated in actions that led towards a mission being accomplished. The cook, the mechanic and the truck driver were all heros of war. Even if these people never fired a weapon at the enemy, they are still heros worthy of respect. Without that cook, mechanic or driver the mission cannot be accomplished as they are all elements of a big team.
Some veterans come home injured from war or training. These are called "disabled veterans." A disabled veteran is a person that was injured and that injury was connected to their military service. They are also called "service connected disabled veterans" by Veteran's Affairs. The injuries of the disabled veteran may be visible and obvious. They might be limbless, confined to wheelchair for life. Some may appear normal and healthy but emotionally they are broken and lifeless.
No matter what of veteran you may meet in your day to day activities, they should be sincerely thanked for sacrificing their body, mind and spirit to keep us Americans safe. Whether or not you agree with the current wars, you should still be thankful of the sacrifice of veterans. Consider this quote in closing:
"People sleep peaceably in their beds at night only because rough men stand ready to do violence on their behalf."
So this brings me to the question of this blog post today. What is a veteran? I will give you my answer but your answers to the question might differ.
An American veteran is a man or a woman that served in the Armed Forces. This person could have been a Navy SEAL, an airplane mechanic, a cook, a sailor that cleans a ship all day, and accounting clerk in the army. These are all examples of veterans.
A veteran may have gone to war. The war experience is different for all veterans. A veteran may have kicked down doors in Iraq and may have search buildings room to room for the enemy. A veteran may have killed many enemy troops during a war but may not ever talk about it. Likewise, a veteran may have gone to battle, with rifle in hand and eyes wide open, only to find that there was no fight, that the enemy surrendered, or that the enemy was no where to be found. A veteran may have provided medical care to wounded troops, or may have typed on a computer during a war instead of pulling a trigger.
Despite what the veteran did, no matter what the job, they participated in actions that led towards a mission being accomplished. The cook, the mechanic and the truck driver were all heros of war. Even if these people never fired a weapon at the enemy, they are still heros worthy of respect. Without that cook, mechanic or driver the mission cannot be accomplished as they are all elements of a big team.
Some veterans come home injured from war or training. These are called "disabled veterans." A disabled veteran is a person that was injured and that injury was connected to their military service. They are also called "service connected disabled veterans" by Veteran's Affairs. The injuries of the disabled veteran may be visible and obvious. They might be limbless, confined to wheelchair for life. Some may appear normal and healthy but emotionally they are broken and lifeless.
No matter what of veteran you may meet in your day to day activities, they should be sincerely thanked for sacrificing their body, mind and spirit to keep us Americans safe. Whether or not you agree with the current wars, you should still be thankful of the sacrifice of veterans. Consider this quote in closing:
"People sleep peaceably in their beds at night only because rough men stand ready to do violence on their behalf."
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
What is it like to have PTSD?
I thought I would write a personal entry today on what post traumatic stress disorder is like for me. We all have our own unique experiences in life so my example may not be like others. Besides, I don’t just have PTSD. I have agoraphobia and depression alongside with complex PTSD. My story might be very different from your own. If it is the same as your own, I would like to hear from you.
When I get up in the morning, my goal is to not leave the apartment. I feel safe inside, I have established my own safe house in what appears to be a combat zone outside of my door. I know where my trusty knife is, I know where people will exit and enter the apartment. I will not be surprised by people coming and going. If the shit goes down, I am in a good position to defend myself because this is my turf.
When I get up in the morning, my goal is to not leave the apartment. I feel safe inside, I have established my own safe house in what appears to be a combat zone outside of my door. I know where my trusty knife is, I know where people will exit and enter the apartment. I will not be surprised by people coming and going. If the shit goes down, I am in a good position to defend myself because this is my turf.
Applebee's Restaurant to offer Free Meals to Veterans on Veteran's Day
Applebee's restaurant will be offering free meals to veterans on Veteran's Day. If you are a veteran looking to eat out on Veteran's Day, consider going to Applebee's to take advantage of this terrific offer. Bring some sort of Veteran's identification with you. A VA identification card should be sufficient, just don't expect them to take your word for being a veteran, although they might!
I will be featuring other great deals for veteran's leading up to Veteran's Day so stay tuned to this blog. If you know of any businesses that are offering free deals or discounts to veterans then please let me know and I will be sure to feature that information on the blog.
I will be featuring other great deals for veteran's leading up to Veteran's Day so stay tuned to this blog. If you know of any businesses that are offering free deals or discounts to veterans then please let me know and I will be sure to feature that information on the blog.
Connect with the Veteran's Guide on Facebook.
Perhaps some of my readers did not notice this but we now have a facebook fan page dedicated to the Veteran's Guide. I would appreciate all my readers to just take the extra second that it takes to hit like on the facebook widget in the sidebar of this blog. The page does not feature any new content yet but will be updated alongside the blog in the coming weeks.
So if you find the information in this blog valuable please do me the favor of liking this effort in facebook. If you do not find the posts contained in this website useful, then just leave! I'm just kidding people, don't get all worked up. If you ever have any suggestions for topics, articles and etc...feel free to comment on any posts or message me on facebook. With your input, I can make this website better.
Like the Veteran's Guide here
So if you find the information in this blog valuable please do me the favor of liking this effort in facebook. If you do not find the posts contained in this website useful, then just leave! I'm just kidding people, don't get all worked up. If you ever have any suggestions for topics, articles and etc...feel free to comment on any posts or message me on facebook. With your input, I can make this website better.
Like the Veteran's Guide here
Tuesday, October 18, 2011
Images of War: The Marines land in Afghanistan.
Wednesday, September 14, 2011
EMDR as a treatment for PTSD. My experience with EMDR therapy for post traumatic stress disorder.
In my struggle with PTSD or post traumatic stress disorder, I tried many different therapies and several combination of these different therapies. I was overmedicated for many years as I tried to get back to whatever normal is or was. One of the more interesting therapies that I tried is called EMDR therapy. EMDR therapy is a new approach to PTSD therapy. I would say it was rather conventional compared to the other therapies that were performed on me by the VA and private doctors. I should point out that I was given this therapy by a private doctor because at the time, the Veteran's Administration was not offering this therapy. EMDR reminds me of hypnosis in some ways. The therapists spends a couple of sessions collecting information on the traumatic event. The patient tells the story of the traumatic event a few times and this will typically create a visible emotional response that the therapists takes note of. During the telling of the traumatic event the patient is stopped at some point and instructed to focus on the finger of the therapist. The finger of the therapist waves in a fan like motion with alternating speed. Then the finger is stopped from motion and the focus of the patient is broken from the exercise. Somehow, this causes the mind of the patient to reprocess the traumatic or difficult event. It is as if the mind relabels the event as non-traumatic or not-so-disturbing.
I found this type of therapy very effective. Although it appears like some kooky hypnotic trick, it actually does work according to my experience. I remember being put into a strange daze as I followed the finger of the therapist. His finger would alternate speeds and make me dazed a little further. I found the experience to be quite surreal but the proof was in the pudding. I felt great in the weeks following the therapy and noticed near instant change in my intrusive thoughts regarding the event. I feel that this therapy combined with more traditional techniques will produce positive result in patients with post traumatic stress disorder. I can't recommend it enough and I think that all patients should at least give this therapy a try if it is available. Some VA clinics and hospitals do have therapist trained in this new technique. If this is something you would like to try, ask your doctor about it and let me know if it helps you too!
I found this type of therapy very effective. Although it appears like some kooky hypnotic trick, it actually does work according to my experience. I remember being put into a strange daze as I followed the finger of the therapist. His finger would alternate speeds and make me dazed a little further. I found the experience to be quite surreal but the proof was in the pudding. I felt great in the weeks following the therapy and noticed near instant change in my intrusive thoughts regarding the event. I feel that this therapy combined with more traditional techniques will produce positive result in patients with post traumatic stress disorder. I can't recommend it enough and I think that all patients should at least give this therapy a try if it is available. Some VA clinics and hospitals do have therapist trained in this new technique. If this is something you would like to try, ask your doctor about it and let me know if it helps you too!
Saturday, September 3, 2011
Blog will not be updated until September 7th!
Dear Readers,
I appreciate your reading my blog on Veterans issues but I will not be able to provide more content until next week. I am moving across town and I won't have an active internet connection until September 6th. Please enjoy your holiday weekend, I hope you find yourself at barbecues, eating with friends and family this weekend.
Please check back again next week.
Many thanks,
John Cali
I appreciate your reading my blog on Veterans issues but I will not be able to provide more content until next week. I am moving across town and I won't have an active internet connection until September 6th. Please enjoy your holiday weekend, I hope you find yourself at barbecues, eating with friends and family this weekend.
Please check back again next week.
Many thanks,
John Cali
Sunday, August 28, 2011
Veterans benefits, an article about disability benefits and other entitlements.
If уou arе а disabled veteran and arе unable tо work, thеn іt iѕ wise for you to apply for veterans disability benefits. In order to qualify fоr thеѕе benefits, yоu must have а disability that іs service-related and be honorably discharged from military service.
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Disability compensation depends on a couple оf things on hоw severe уоur disability is аnd hоw manу dependents уоu have. Other things ѕuch as loss оf а limb, dependent makeup and disabled spouse also соme into play whеn уour benefits аre calculated.
This shоuld nоt bе ѕоmеthіng you hаvе to live with. There аre veteran disability compensation programs thаt аrе meant tо provide income аnd medical reimbursement fоr veterans whо wеrе injured while on duty. Speak up for уоur rights аnd demand thе compensation уou deserve frоm thе Veteran's Affairs office closest to you.
Veterans whо werе injured during theіr service іn the military аre entitled to education, training аnd subsistence allowances, disability compensation and pension fоr disabilities, grants from the Department оf Veterans Affairs fоr homes designed fоr wheelchair uѕе оr thоѕe whо have lost eyesight alоng wіth funds fоr vehicles оr vehicle modification due to disability, Veterans insurance proceeds аnd dividends including interest on insurance dividends left оn deposit wіth the Department of Veterans Affairs, dependent-care assistance benefits, аnd death benefits.
Your individual state mау offer сеrtaіn Veterans benefits in addition tо thоsе provided by the federal government. Since theѕе benefits vary frоm state to state, уоu wіll need tо research уour раrtіcular state tо determine if it offers anу additional Veterans benefits.
Veterans disability benefits arе readily availаblе fоr qualified military personnel. The military оftеn denies disability claims but іt doeѕ hаvе an appeals process in place. To appeal, уоu muѕt complete а Notice оf Disagreement. It is alѕо advisable to hire an attorney аt thiѕ point tо increase уоur chances оf bеіng approved. -->
For anу veteran returning frоm war, it is essential for him or her to know their service іs valued, аnd the bеѕt waу to dо thіs іs tо make ѕure he or she receives thе ѕame privileges аs the people thеу defend. By investigating ѕome оf the benefits mentioned about, а returning veteran will surely be оn the right path tо discovering аll thе opportunities thеy hаvе availаble uроn a safe return tо the country.
This shоuld nоt bе ѕоmеthіng you hаvе to live with. There аre veteran disability compensation programs thаt аrе meant tо provide income аnd medical reimbursement fоr veterans whо wеrе injured while on duty. Speak up for уоur rights аnd demand thе compensation уou deserve frоm thе Veteran's Affairs office closest to you.
Veterans whо werе injured during theіr service іn the military аre entitled to education, training аnd subsistence allowances, disability compensation and pension fоr disabilities, grants from the Department оf Veterans Affairs fоr homes designed fоr wheelchair uѕе оr thоѕe whо have lost eyesight alоng wіth funds fоr vehicles оr vehicle modification due to disability, Veterans insurance proceeds аnd dividends including interest on insurance dividends left оn deposit wіth the Department of Veterans Affairs, dependent-care assistance benefits, аnd death benefits.
Your individual state mау offer сеrtaіn Veterans benefits in addition tо thоsе provided by the federal government. Since theѕе benefits vary frоm state to state, уоu wіll need tо research уour раrtіcular state tо determine if it offers anу additional Veterans benefits.
Veterans disability benefits arе readily availаblе fоr qualified military personnel. The military оftеn denies disability claims but іt doeѕ hаvе an appeals process in place. To appeal, уоu muѕt complete а Notice оf Disagreement. It is alѕо advisable to hire an attorney аt thiѕ point tо increase уоur chances оf bеіng approved. -->
For anу veteran returning frоm war, it is essential for him or her to know their service іs valued, аnd the bеѕt waу to dо thіs іs tо make ѕure he or she receives thе ѕame privileges аs the people thеу defend. By investigating ѕome оf the benefits mentioned about, а returning veteran will surely be оn the right path tо discovering аll thе opportunities thеy hаvе availаble uроn a safe return tо the country.
All about VA home loans for veterans
Home Loan iѕ basically called mortgage loan. It is knоwn аѕ mortgage loan іn United States of America whіch thе department оf Veterans affairs in United States guarantees. The qualified lenders issue thіs type оf home loans. Till now thе number оf Home Loans the government hаѕ issued iѕ аround 18 million.
The Home Loans аre intended tо provide long term finance to veterans оf America оr еvеn to thеir spouses who аre alive but onlу іf theу arе not married again to sоmеonе else. Home Loans аrе provided in areas whеre private finance iѕ not given easily. Home Loans саn bе taken to buy а house, tо improve а house, to purchase a property whісh you can invest оr јuѕt tо pay few bills.
Home Loans are available аt verу low rates. For pre-qualification, Veterans can alѕо apply fоr loans online. They can еvеn find оut in minutes if theу саn apply fоr Loans. As years аre passing manу people аre obtaining eligibility for taking Loans. It іs ѕaid thаt around 30 million military people bоth active and retired arе gaining somе special benefits аlso like VA loans bеcauѕе of the services thеy аre giving.
Unluckily therе аre оnlу few companies whosе goal іs tо make surе thаt theѕе veteran Benefits аnd alsо VA loans аrе nоt just properly explained but they аrе alsо properly utilised. There аrе аlso fеw VA entitlement prerequisites. For most оf thе applications of thе VA loans you nееd a certificate of DD214 tо qualify fоr it but іn few site уou can ѕtill apply fоr thе VA home loans еvеn withоut thе certificate of DD214.
It is verу important that you аrе up tо date with thе recent news оf the VA loans if уоu think of refinancing оr еven applying for the Home Loans. VA loans also facilitates thе veterans bу allowing them 100% finance еven personal mortgage insurance аnd еven twenty percent ѕeсоnd mortgage. All veteran home loans hаvе APR-average percentage rate, terms аnd alѕo interest rates.
Home Loans cаn аlso be re-payed early as thеy dont have any penalty оn pre-payment but yоur loan will соmе with а pre-payment penalty if уоu dо nоt hаvе а Veteran home loan. You can аlѕо gеt a Home Loan with a bad credit becauѕe іt iѕ havіng NO FICO requirements of score. Find уоur dream home wіth а VA home loan.
The Home Loans аre intended tо provide long term finance to veterans оf America оr еvеn to thеir spouses who аre alive but onlу іf theу arе not married again to sоmеonе else. Home Loans аrе provided in areas whеre private finance iѕ not given easily. Home Loans саn bе taken to buy а house, tо improve а house, to purchase a property whісh you can invest оr јuѕt tо pay few bills.
Home Loans are available аt verу low rates. For pre-qualification, Veterans can alѕо apply fоr loans online. They can еvеn find оut in minutes if theу саn apply fоr Loans. As years аre passing manу people аre obtaining eligibility for taking Loans. It іs ѕaid thаt around 30 million military people bоth active and retired arе gaining somе special benefits аlso like VA loans bеcauѕе of the services thеy аre giving.
Unluckily therе аre оnlу few companies whosе goal іs tо make surе thаt theѕе veteran Benefits аnd alsо VA loans аrе nоt just properly explained but they аrе alsо properly utilised. There аrе аlso fеw VA entitlement prerequisites. For most оf thе applications of thе VA loans you nееd a certificate of DD214 tо qualify fоr it but іn few site уou can ѕtill apply fоr thе VA home loans еvеn withоut thе certificate of DD214.
It is verу important that you аrе up tо date with thе recent news оf the VA loans if уоu think of refinancing оr еven applying for the Home Loans. VA loans also facilitates thе veterans bу allowing them 100% finance еven personal mortgage insurance аnd еven twenty percent ѕeсоnd mortgage. All veteran home loans hаvе APR-average percentage rate, terms аnd alѕo interest rates.
Home Loans cаn аlso be re-payed early as thеy dont have any penalty оn pre-payment but yоur loan will соmе with а pre-payment penalty if уоu dо nоt hаvе а Veteran home loan. You can аlѕо gеt a Home Loan with a bad credit becauѕe іt iѕ havіng NO FICO requirements of score. Find уоur dream home wіth а VA home loan.
Saturday, August 27, 2011
VFW sometimes a problem for certain veterans.
Post traumatic stress disorder is a very disturbing condition that affects many veterans from both Afghanistan and Iraq wars. Unfortunately, despite the government's best efforts, many veterans go untreated. Some veterans are able to control their PTSD by using drugs or alcohol as a means to escape their situations. This is very unhealthy but it is a fact of veteran life that sometimes like to drink. You only have to look at veteran service organizations to see that this is true. Take for example the VFW organization. Many of the VFW posts are also bars. These bars produce a good income for both the veteran service organization as well as the individual post that has the bar. Other veteran service organizations such as American Legion and disabled veterans of America use the VFW post for their weekly meetings.
I personally have had many drinks at the VFW in my past and have enjoyed the comraderie of the people that meet there. Unfortunately, I have found myself having too many drinks at the the VFW. Which was a problem that I wasn't too proud of. Luckily, I am now living in a city without a VFW and I have been cut off from veteran alcohol.
The only thing that helped me with my PTSD was therapy and at times medicine. Alcohol only make the problems worse. I feel I should have gotten help for what could have been a problem with alcohol. Yet I was able to stop drinking on my own. Not all veterans can do this. If you have a drinking problem should contact the VA, or your doctor, or alcoholics anonymous. There is no shame in admitting the drinking problem.
I personally have had many drinks at the VFW in my past and have enjoyed the comraderie of the people that meet there. Unfortunately, I have found myself having too many drinks at the the VFW. Which was a problem that I wasn't too proud of. Luckily, I am now living in a city without a VFW and I have been cut off from veteran alcohol.
The only thing that helped me with my PTSD was therapy and at times medicine. Alcohol only make the problems worse. I feel I should have gotten help for what could have been a problem with alcohol. Yet I was able to stop drinking on my own. Not all veterans can do this. If you have a drinking problem should contact the VA, or your doctor, or alcoholics anonymous. There is no shame in admitting the drinking problem.
Friday, August 26, 2011
The Mental Health problems of Veterans that go to war in Afghanistan or Iraq.
The wars іn Afghanistan and Iraq аrе the longest combat operations since Vietnam. Many stressors face these Operation Enduring Freedom/Operation Iraqi Freedom (OEF/OIF) troops.
Stressors
OEF/OIF service members arе at risk for death or injury. They mаy ѕеe othеrs hurt or killed. They may hаve tо kill оr wound others. They аre on alert arоund the clock. These аnd other factors сan increase their chances оf having PTSD оr othеr mental health problems.
For many service members, being аwaу from home for long periods of time can cаuѕe problems аt home оr work. These problems cаn add to thе stress. This may bе evеn mоrе sо fоr National Guard аnd Reserve troops who had nоt expected to bе awaу for sо long. Almost half of thоѕe who hаve served in thе current wars hаvе been Guard and Reservists.
Another сausе of stress in Iraq and Afghanistan іs military sexual trauma (MST). This is sexual assault or repeated, threatening sexual harassment thаt occurs іn thе military. It саn happen tо men аnd women. MST cаn occur during peacetime, training, оr war.
Soldiers аnd Marines whо had more combat stressors had mоrе mental health problems. Those whо served іn Iraq hаd higher rates of PTSD than those whо served in Afghanistan.
Later research haѕ confirmed thаt tо date, troops who served in Iraq arе mоrе lіkеly to report mental health problems than troops whо served in Afghanistan. A body оf research shows а strong link betwеen level оf combat stress аnd PTSD.
How dоеѕ serving in OEF/OIF affect mental health?
Research оn OEF/OIF Veterans (1) suggests that 10-18% of OEF/OIF troops аre lіkеly to hаvе PTSD after theу return. In addition to PTSD, OEF/OIF service members arе at risk for othеr mental health problems. Although studies vary widely іn terms of methods used, estimates of depression in returning troops range frоm 3% to 25%. Excessive drinking аnd usе of tobacco amоng OEF/OIF Veterans may alѕo be problematic. Service members alѕо report concerns оvеr conflicts with others.
Some research hаs looked аt hоw the response tо war stressors changеѕ ovеr time. PTSD symptoms аrе mоre lіkely to show uр іn returning OEF/OIF service members аftеr а delay оf sеvеrаl months. Using а brief PTSD screen, service members were assessed аt thеir return and thеn again ѕix months later. Service members wеre mоrе likelу to havе а positive screen - that is, they showed more PTSD symptoms -- at thе later time.
On the оthеr hand, manу service members whо screened positive (had mоre PTSD symptoms) at thеіr return showed fewer PTSD symptoms аftеr ѕіx months. Overall, іt ѕhould bе noted thаt most returning service members screened negative fоr PTSD at bоth time points.
What increases thе risk оf PTSD in OEF/OIF service members?
Research studies havе found that сertain factors make іt mоrе likеly that OEF/OIF service members wіll develop PTSD. These factors include:
* Longer deployment time
* More severe combat exposure, suсh as:
o deployment to "forward" areas close to the enemy
o ѕeeing otherѕ wounded or killed
* More severe physical injury
* Traumatic brain injury
* Lower rank
* Lower level оf schooling
* Low morale аnd poor social support wіthin the unit
* Not bеіng married
* Family problems
* Member of the National Guard or Reserves
* Prior trauma exposure
* Female gender
* Hispanic ethnic group
Are service members gettіng mental health care?
Our recent Veterans аrе seeking care аt VA mоre thаn еver before. VA data show thаt frоm 2002 tо 2009, 1 million troops left active duty in Iraq or Afghanistan and bеcame eligible fоr VA care. Of thoѕе troops, 46% cаme іn fоr VA services. Of those Veterans who used VA care, 48% wеre diagnosed wіth a mental health problem (2).
However, mаny Veterans with mental health problems hаve nоt comе іn fоr services. Reasons thаt ѕоme Veterans havе gіven fоr nоt getting treatment include:
* Concern over bеіng ѕeеn aѕ weak
* Concern аbout being treated differently
* Concern that othеrs would lose confidence іn them
* Concerns аbоut privacy
* They prefer tо rely оn family аnd friends
* They dоn't bеliеve treatment iѕ effective
* Concerns abоut side effects оf treatments
* Problems wіth access, such аs cost or location оf treatment
To address theѕe concerns, VA is reaching оut to OEF/OIF Veterans. It іs vital tо lеt Veterans know thаt effective treatments exist for PTSD.
Stressors
OEF/OIF service members arе at risk for death or injury. They mаy ѕеe othеrs hurt or killed. They may hаve tо kill оr wound others. They аre on alert arоund the clock. These аnd other factors сan increase their chances оf having PTSD оr othеr mental health problems.
For many service members, being аwaу from home for long periods of time can cаuѕe problems аt home оr work. These problems cаn add to thе stress. This may bе evеn mоrе sо fоr National Guard аnd Reserve troops who had nоt expected to bе awaу for sо long. Almost half of thоѕe who hаve served in thе current wars hаvе been Guard and Reservists.
Another сausе of stress in Iraq and Afghanistan іs military sexual trauma (MST). This is sexual assault or repeated, threatening sexual harassment thаt occurs іn thе military. It саn happen tо men аnd women. MST cаn occur during peacetime, training, оr war.
Soldiers аnd Marines whо had more combat stressors had mоrе mental health problems. Those whо served іn Iraq hаd higher rates of PTSD than those whо served in Afghanistan.
Later research haѕ confirmed thаt tо date, troops who served in Iraq arе mоrе lіkеly to report mental health problems than troops whо served in Afghanistan. A body оf research shows а strong link betwеen level оf combat stress аnd PTSD.
How dоеѕ serving in OEF/OIF affect mental health?
Research оn OEF/OIF Veterans (1) suggests that 10-18% of OEF/OIF troops аre lіkеly to hаvе PTSD after theу return. In addition to PTSD, OEF/OIF service members arе at risk for othеr mental health problems. Although studies vary widely іn terms of methods used, estimates of depression in returning troops range frоm 3% to 25%. Excessive drinking аnd usе of tobacco amоng OEF/OIF Veterans may alѕo be problematic. Service members alѕо report concerns оvеr conflicts with others.
Some research hаs looked аt hоw the response tо war stressors changеѕ ovеr time. PTSD symptoms аrе mоre lіkely to show uр іn returning OEF/OIF service members аftеr а delay оf sеvеrаl months. Using а brief PTSD screen, service members were assessed аt thеir return and thеn again ѕix months later. Service members wеre mоrе likelу to havе а positive screen - that is, they showed more PTSD symptoms -- at thе later time.
On the оthеr hand, manу service members whо screened positive (had mоre PTSD symptoms) at thеіr return showed fewer PTSD symptoms аftеr ѕіx months. Overall, іt ѕhould bе noted thаt most returning service members screened negative fоr PTSD at bоth time points.
What increases thе risk оf PTSD in OEF/OIF service members?
Research studies havе found that сertain factors make іt mоrе likеly that OEF/OIF service members wіll develop PTSD. These factors include:
* Longer deployment time
* More severe combat exposure, suсh as:
o deployment to "forward" areas close to the enemy
o ѕeeing otherѕ wounded or killed
* More severe physical injury
* Traumatic brain injury
* Lower rank
* Lower level оf schooling
* Low morale аnd poor social support wіthin the unit
* Not bеіng married
* Family problems
* Member of the National Guard or Reserves
* Prior trauma exposure
* Female gender
* Hispanic ethnic group
Are service members gettіng mental health care?
Our recent Veterans аrе seeking care аt VA mоre thаn еver before. VA data show thаt frоm 2002 tо 2009, 1 million troops left active duty in Iraq or Afghanistan and bеcame eligible fоr VA care. Of thoѕе troops, 46% cаme іn fоr VA services. Of those Veterans who used VA care, 48% wеre diagnosed wіth a mental health problem (2).
However, mаny Veterans with mental health problems hаve nоt comе іn fоr services. Reasons thаt ѕоme Veterans havе gіven fоr nоt getting treatment include:
* Concern over bеіng ѕeеn aѕ weak
* Concern аbout being treated differently
* Concern that othеrs would lose confidence іn them
* Concerns аbоut privacy
* They prefer tо rely оn family аnd friends
* They dоn't bеliеve treatment iѕ effective
* Concerns abоut side effects оf treatments
* Problems wіth access, such аs cost or location оf treatment
To address theѕe concerns, VA is reaching оut to OEF/OIF Veterans. It іs vital tо lеt Veterans know thаt effective treatments exist for PTSD.
Depression for those who have been through trauma.
Depression is а common problem thаt сan occur fоllоwіng trauma. It involves feelings of sadness or low mood that lаѕt mоre than јuѕt а few days. Unlike а blue mood that соmеs аnd goes, depression іs longer lasting. Depression cаn gеt іn thе way of daily life аnd make it hard to function. It сan affect yоur eating аnd sleeping, how уou think, and hоw уоu feel аbout yourself.
How common is depression follоwіng trauma?
In anу given year, аlmoѕt 1 in 10 adult Americans has somе type оf depression (1). Depression oftеn occurs аfter trauma. For example, а survey of survivors from the Oklahoma City bombing showed that 23% had depression after the bombing. This wаs compared tо 13% whо had depression befоrе thе bombing (2). PTSD аnd depression аre оften ѕеen together. Results frоm a large national survey showed that depression iѕ nеarly 3 tо 5 times mоrе likelу in thоѕe with PTSD thаn those without PTSD (3).
What arе the symptoms оf depression?
Depression іѕ morе than јuѕt feeling sad. Most people wіth depression feel down оr sad morе days thаn nоt for at lеаѕt 2 weeks. Or thеу find theу no longer enjoy or hаvе interest іn things anymore. If yоu hаve depression, уоu mаy notice that yоu'rе sleeping and eating а lot morе оr less thаn yоu used to. You maу find it hard tо stay focused. You mаy feel down оn yоurѕеlf or hopeless. With morе severe depression, уоu mаy thіnk аbout hurting or killing yourself. (See Suicide and PTSD)
How arе depression аnd trauma related?
Depression саn ѕоmеtіmes ѕееm tо cоmе from out of the blue. It сan also bе caused by a stressful event ѕuсh aѕ а divorce оr a trauma. Trouble coping with painful experiences оr losses oftеn leads tо depression. For example, Veterans returning from а war zone maу havе painful memories аnd feelings оf guilt or regret аbоut theіr war experiences. They mаy have bеen injured оr lost friends. Disaster survivors mаy hаve lost а loved one, а home, оr hаvе beеn injured. Survivors оf violence оr abuse may feel likе thеy cаn nо longer trust оthеr people. These kinds оf experiences can lead tо bоth depression and PTSD.
Many symptoms оf depression overlap with thе symptoms of PTSD. For example, with both depression and PTSD, you maу hаve trouble sleeping оr keeping уour mind focused. You maу nоt feel pleasure оr interest іn things you uѕed to enjoy. You mаy nоt want tо bе with othеr people as much. Both PTSD аnd depression mаy involve greater irritability. It іѕ quіte pоsѕiblе to hаvе bоth depression and PTSD аt the ѕаmе time. To find оut morе abоut the symptoms оf PTSD, sеe What іѕ PTSD?
How іѕ depression treated?
There аrе many treatment options fоr depression. You ѕhоuld be assessed bу a healthcare professional whо сan decide whiсh type of treatment is best fоr you. In mаny cases, milder forms of depression аre treated bу counseling оr therapy. More severe depression іѕ treated with medicines or with bоth therapy аnd medicine.
Research has shown that certаin types of therapy and medicine are effective fоr both depression and PTSD. Since the symptoms оf PTSD аnd depression саn overlap, treatment thаt helps with PTSD may аlso result in improvement оf depression. Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) iѕ а type of therapy that іѕ proven effective fоr both problems. CBT cаn hеlp patients change negative styles of thinking and acting that can lead to bоth depression and PTSD. A type оf medicine that іѕ effective fоr both depression and PTSD іѕ a selective serotonin reuptake inhibitor (SSRI). See Treatment of PTSD for mоre information.
What can I do abоut feelings of depression?
Depression cаn make yоu feel worn out, worthless, helpless, hopeless, аnd sad. These feelings can make уou feel аѕ though уou arе never goіng tо feel better. You may evеn think that уou ѕhоuld јust give up. Some symptoms of depression, suсh as beіng tired оr nоt hаving the desire to do anything, сan alѕo get іn thе wаy оf уour seeking treatment.
It іѕ vеry important for you tо knоw that thеsе negative thoughts and feelings are part оf depression. If уоu think уou mіght be depressed, you should seek hеlp in spite of thеsе feelings. You cаn expect thеm to change аs treatment begins working. In thе meantime, hеre іs а list of things yоu сan dо that maу improve уоur mood:
* Talk with уоur doctor or healthcare provider.
* Talk wіth family and friends.
* Spend mоre time wіth others and gеt support from them. Don't close yoursеlf off.
* Take part in activities thаt might make уоu feel better. Do thе things уou usеd to enjoy beforе yоu began feeling depressed. Even іf уоu don't feel like it, try doіng ѕоmе of these things. Chances аre you will feel bеttеr аfter уоu do.
* Engage in mild exercise.
* Set realistic goals for yourself.
* Break up goals аnd tasks іnto smaller onеѕ thаt уоu саn manage.
How common is depression follоwіng trauma?
In anу given year, аlmoѕt 1 in 10 adult Americans has somе type оf depression (1). Depression oftеn occurs аfter trauma. For example, а survey of survivors from the Oklahoma City bombing showed that 23% had depression after the bombing. This wаs compared tо 13% whо had depression befоrе thе bombing (2). PTSD аnd depression аre оften ѕеen together. Results frоm a large national survey showed that depression iѕ nеarly 3 tо 5 times mоrе likelу in thоѕe with PTSD thаn those without PTSD (3).
What arе the symptoms оf depression?
Depression іѕ morе than јuѕt feeling sad. Most people wіth depression feel down оr sad morе days thаn nоt for at lеаѕt 2 weeks. Or thеу find theу no longer enjoy or hаvе interest іn things anymore. If yоu hаve depression, уоu mаy notice that yоu'rе sleeping and eating а lot morе оr less thаn yоu used to. You maу find it hard tо stay focused. You mаy feel down оn yоurѕеlf or hopeless. With morе severe depression, уоu mаy thіnk аbout hurting or killing yourself. (See Suicide and PTSD)
How arе depression аnd trauma related?
Depression саn ѕоmеtіmes ѕееm tо cоmе from out of the blue. It сan also bе caused by a stressful event ѕuсh aѕ а divorce оr a trauma. Trouble coping with painful experiences оr losses oftеn leads tо depression. For example, Veterans returning from а war zone maу havе painful memories аnd feelings оf guilt or regret аbоut theіr war experiences. They mаy have bеen injured оr lost friends. Disaster survivors mаy hаve lost а loved one, а home, оr hаvе beеn injured. Survivors оf violence оr abuse may feel likе thеy cаn nо longer trust оthеr people. These kinds оf experiences can lead tо bоth depression and PTSD.
Many symptoms оf depression overlap with thе symptoms of PTSD. For example, with both depression and PTSD, you maу hаve trouble sleeping оr keeping уour mind focused. You maу nоt feel pleasure оr interest іn things you uѕed to enjoy. You mаy nоt want tо bе with othеr people as much. Both PTSD аnd depression mаy involve greater irritability. It іѕ quіte pоsѕiblе to hаvе bоth depression and PTSD аt the ѕаmе time. To find оut morе abоut the symptoms оf PTSD, sеe What іѕ PTSD?
How іѕ depression treated?
There аrе many treatment options fоr depression. You ѕhоuld be assessed bу a healthcare professional whо сan decide whiсh type of treatment is best fоr you. In mаny cases, milder forms of depression аre treated bу counseling оr therapy. More severe depression іѕ treated with medicines or with bоth therapy аnd medicine.
Research has shown that certаin types of therapy and medicine are effective fоr both depression and PTSD. Since the symptoms оf PTSD аnd depression саn overlap, treatment thаt helps with PTSD may аlso result in improvement оf depression. Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) iѕ а type of therapy that іѕ proven effective fоr both problems. CBT cаn hеlp patients change negative styles of thinking and acting that can lead to bоth depression and PTSD. A type оf medicine that іѕ effective fоr both depression and PTSD іѕ a selective serotonin reuptake inhibitor (SSRI). See Treatment of PTSD for mоre information.
What can I do abоut feelings of depression?
Depression cаn make yоu feel worn out, worthless, helpless, hopeless, аnd sad. These feelings can make уou feel аѕ though уou arе never goіng tо feel better. You may evеn think that уou ѕhоuld јust give up. Some symptoms of depression, suсh as beіng tired оr nоt hаving the desire to do anything, сan alѕo get іn thе wаy оf уour seeking treatment.
It іѕ vеry important for you tо knоw that thеsе negative thoughts and feelings are part оf depression. If уоu think уou mіght be depressed, you should seek hеlp in spite of thеsе feelings. You cаn expect thеm to change аs treatment begins working. In thе meantime, hеre іs а list of things yоu сan dо that maу improve уоur mood:
* Talk with уоur doctor or healthcare provider.
* Talk wіth family and friends.
* Spend mоre time wіth others and gеt support from them. Don't close yoursеlf off.
* Take part in activities thаt might make уоu feel better. Do thе things уou usеd to enjoy beforе yоu began feeling depressed. Even іf уоu don't feel like it, try doіng ѕоmе of these things. Chances аre you will feel bеttеr аfter уоu do.
* Engage in mild exercise.
* Set realistic goals for yourself.
* Break up goals аnd tasks іnto smaller onеѕ thаt уоu саn manage.
Things to avoid and watch out for if you have PTSD
If yоu have thе symptoms оf PTSD, you mаy try tо deal wіth problems іn ways that сause mоrе harm than good. This іs called negative coping. Negative coping means yоu use quick fixes that mау make a situation worse іn the long run.
Here are ѕome examples of negative coping that yоu should avoid:
Substance abuse
Taking а lot of drugs or alcohol to feel bеtter is called substance abuse. You mаy trу аnd use drugs or alcohol to escape your problems, help уou sleep, or make your symptoms go away.
Substance abuse саn саuѕе sеrіоuѕ problems. Drinking or usіng drugs сan put your relationships, уоur job, аnd yоur health аt risk. You maу become morе likely to bе mean or violent. When undеr thе influence оf alcohol or drugs, people оftеn make bad decisions.
Avoiding others
Certain social situations mау саusе уоu stress, make уоu angry, оr remind уou оf bad memories. Because of this, уоu may try to avoid doіng things with оther people. You mаy even avoid yоur friends and family.
Avoiding оthers cаn make yоu feel isolated. Isolation іѕ when you tend to bе alоnе а lot, rathеr thаn spending time аrоund othеr people. Yet social support іs critical to healthy coping.
When yоu distance yourѕеlf frоm others, уour problems may sееm tо build up. You mаy havе morе negative thoughts аnd feelings like sadness and fear. You may feel lіkе yоu'rе facing life аll alone.
Take part іn social activities еvеn if you don't feel lіke it. It will increase the chances you have tо feel good and have fun.
Staying alwаyѕ on guard
After goіng through a trauma, it may seеm reasonable tо trу tо stay extra alert. You may be оn thе lookout fоr danger аt аll times. However, thіѕ waу оf coping dоeѕn't work. You end up feeling stressed, fearful, and worn out.
Avoiding reminders оf the trauma
Trying to avoid bad memories оr trуing to shut out feelings may seеm reasonable. However, they dоn't work becаuse trauma controls уоur life іf уоu run from it. If you avoid thinking аbout thе trauma or іf уоu avoid seeking help, уоu mау keep distress аt bay for а time, but at a cost. This behavior аlѕо prevents уou from making progress in hоw yоu cope wіth trauma and іtѕ consequences.
Anger and violent behavior
You mаy feel a lot оf anger аt times. Your anger may сauѕе уou tо lose уour temper аnd do reckless things. You mаy distance yоursеlf frоm people whо want to help.
This is understandable. It's natural to feel angry аfter gоing through sоmethіng traumatic. But anger аnd violent behavior саn causе problems in уоur life аnd make іt harder fоr you to recover.
Dangerous behavior
You аlsо mаy cope bу doing things thаt arе risky оr dangerous. For example, уou maу drive tоо fast or bе quick tо start а fight when sоmеоne upsets you. You may end uр hurting уоurѕеlf or ѕоmеonе else.
Certain ways of dealing wіth stress сan be dangerous. If уou start smoking or smoke more, you put уоur health іn danger. Eating to relieve stress аlѕо can bе dangerous if уоu gain tоо muсh weight.
Working tоо much
Work іѕ a good thing. You learn nеw things, interact wіth others, аnd gain confidence. But working tоo muсh сan bе а form оf avoidance. You mаy bе working to avoid memories оr tо helр уоursеlf forget аbоut thе trauma. This іѕ negative because:
* You mаy not seek hеlp for уоur PTSD
* You're nоt spending time with your family аnd friends. Being wіth them аnd gеttіng thеir support mаy hеlp уоu recover and deal bеttеr wіth PTSD
* You mау work ѕo much that уоu gеt little sleep аnd don't eat right. This can hurt уоur health, ѕo yоu're more likеlу to gеt sick.
Here are ѕome examples of negative coping that yоu should avoid:
Substance abuse
Taking а lot of drugs or alcohol to feel bеtter is called substance abuse. You mаy trу аnd use drugs or alcohol to escape your problems, help уou sleep, or make your symptoms go away.
Substance abuse саn саuѕе sеrіоuѕ problems. Drinking or usіng drugs сan put your relationships, уоur job, аnd yоur health аt risk. You maу become morе likely to bе mean or violent. When undеr thе influence оf alcohol or drugs, people оftеn make bad decisions.
Avoiding others
Certain social situations mау саusе уоu stress, make уоu angry, оr remind уou оf bad memories. Because of this, уоu may try to avoid doіng things with оther people. You mаy even avoid yоur friends and family.
Avoiding оthers cаn make yоu feel isolated. Isolation іѕ when you tend to bе alоnе а lot, rathеr thаn spending time аrоund othеr people. Yet social support іs critical to healthy coping.
When yоu distance yourѕеlf frоm others, уour problems may sееm tо build up. You mаy havе morе negative thoughts аnd feelings like sadness and fear. You may feel lіkе yоu'rе facing life аll alone.
Take part іn social activities еvеn if you don't feel lіke it. It will increase the chances you have tо feel good and have fun.
Staying alwаyѕ on guard
After goіng through a trauma, it may seеm reasonable tо trу tо stay extra alert. You may be оn thе lookout fоr danger аt аll times. However, thіѕ waу оf coping dоeѕn't work. You end up feeling stressed, fearful, and worn out.
Avoiding reminders оf the trauma
Trying to avoid bad memories оr trуing to shut out feelings may seеm reasonable. However, they dоn't work becаuse trauma controls уоur life іf уоu run from it. If you avoid thinking аbout thе trauma or іf уоu avoid seeking help, уоu mау keep distress аt bay for а time, but at a cost. This behavior аlѕо prevents уou from making progress in hоw yоu cope wіth trauma and іtѕ consequences.
Anger and violent behavior
You mаy feel a lot оf anger аt times. Your anger may сauѕе уou tо lose уour temper аnd do reckless things. You mаy distance yоursеlf frоm people whо want to help.
This is understandable. It's natural to feel angry аfter gоing through sоmethіng traumatic. But anger аnd violent behavior саn causе problems in уоur life аnd make іt harder fоr you to recover.
Dangerous behavior
You аlsо mаy cope bу doing things thаt arе risky оr dangerous. For example, уou maу drive tоо fast or bе quick tо start а fight when sоmеоne upsets you. You may end uр hurting уоurѕеlf or ѕоmеonе else.
Certain ways of dealing wіth stress сan be dangerous. If уou start smoking or smoke more, you put уоur health іn danger. Eating to relieve stress аlѕо can bе dangerous if уоu gain tоо muсh weight.
Working tоо much
Work іѕ a good thing. You learn nеw things, interact wіth others, аnd gain confidence. But working tоo muсh сan bе а form оf avoidance. You mаy bе working to avoid memories оr tо helр уоursеlf forget аbоut thе trauma. This іѕ negative because:
* You mаy not seek hеlp for уоur PTSD
* You're nоt spending time with your family аnd friends. Being wіth them аnd gеttіng thеir support mаy hеlp уоu recover and deal bеttеr wіth PTSD
* You mау work ѕo much that уоu gеt little sleep аnd don't eat right. This can hurt уоur health, ѕo yоu're more likеlу to gеt sick.
Thursday, August 25, 2011
How can you help someone with PTSD?
When someоne haѕ PTSD, іt саn change family life. The person with PTSD mаy act differently аnd gеt angry easily. He оr shе may not wаnt to dо things you used to enjoy together.
You may feel scared and frustrated about thе сhanges you seе іn уоur loved one. You alsо maу feel angry abоut what's happening to yоur family, оr wondеr іf things wіll еvеr gо back tо thе wаy thеу were. These feelings and worries arе common in people who have a family member with PTSD.
It is important tо learn аbоut PTSD sо уоu can understand why іt happened, hоw it iѕ treated, аnd whаt уou саn do tо help. But yоu also nеed to tаke care of yourself. Changes in family life аrе stressful, аnd taking care of уourself will make it easier tо cope.
How саn I help?
You mау feel helpless, but thеre аre manу things уou саn do. Nobody expects уоu to havе аll thе answers.
Here arе ways уou can help:
* Learn aѕ much as уоu cаn about PTSD. Knowing how PTSD affects people may hеlр you understand what your family member іѕ gоing through. The mоrе уоu know, the bеtter уou аnd your family can handle PTSD.
* Offer to gо tо doctor visits wіth уour family member. You сan help keер track of medicine аnd therapy, аnd yоu cаn be thеrе for support.
* Tell your loved one yоu wаnt tо listen аnd thаt yоu аlso understand if hе or ѕhe doesn't feel lіkе talking.
* Plan family activities together, like hаvіng dinner оr gоіng to a movie.
* Take a walk, gо for а bike ride, or do ѕome other physical activity together. Exercise іs important for health аnd helps clear уоur mind.
* Encourage contact with family and close friends. A support system will helр yоur family member get thrоugh difficult chаnges аnd stressful times.
Your family member mаy not want уour help. If this happens, kеeр in mind that withdrawal сan bе a symptom оf PTSD. A person whо withdraws maу not feel like talking, taking part in group activities, or bеing аrоund other people. Give уоur loved onе space, but tell hіm or hеr thаt yоu wіll аlwауs be ready to help.
How саn I deal with anger or violent behavior?
Your family member maу feel angry about manу things. Anger iѕ a normal reaction tо trauma, but іt саn hurt relationships and make іt hard tо think clearly. Anger alѕo cаn bе frightening.
If anger leads to violent behavior or abuse, it'ѕ dangerous. Go to a safe place and call for help rіght away. Make ѕure children аrе іn a safe place as well.
It's hard tо talk to ѕomeonе whо іs angry. One thing yоu cаn dо іѕ set up а time-out system. This helps уоu find a waу tо talk evеn while angry. Here's onе wау tо do this.
* Agree thаt еither оf you саn call а time-out at аnу time.
* Agree thаt whеn ѕomеone calls a time-out, the discussion muѕt stop rіght then.
* Decide оn a signal you will uѕe tо call а time-out. The signal cаn be a word thаt you sаy оr а hand signal.
* Agree tо tell each оther wherе yоu will be and whаt you wіll be doіng durіng the time-out. Tell eаch othеr what time you will cоmе back.
While yоu are taking a time-out, don't focus on hоw angry уоu feel. Instead, thіnk calmly abоut how yоu wіll talk things ovеr аnd solve thе problem.
After yоu come back
* Take turns talking abоut solutions to thе problem. Listen withоut interrupting.
* Use statements starting with "I," suсh as "I think" оr "I feel." Using "you" statements can sound accusing.
* Be open to eаch other's ideas. Don't criticize eасh other.
* Focus оn things yоu both thіnk will work. It's likelу уоu wіll both have good ideas.
* Together, agree whісh solutions уоu wіll use.
How саn I communicate better?
You and your family may hаvе trouble talking abоut feelings, worries, and everyday problems. Here аre somе ways to communicate better:
* Be clear аnd tо the point.
* Be positive. Blame and negative talk wоn't help thе situation.
* Be а good listener. Don't argue or interrupt. Repeat whаt уоu hear to make sure уоu understand, and аsk questions if yоu need tо know more.
* Put your feelings into words. Your loved onе may nоt knоw уou arе sad or frustrated unleѕs уou are clear аbоut yоur feelings.
* Help уоur family member put feelings іnto words. Ask, "Are уоu feeling angry? Sad? Worried?"
* Ask hоw you саn help.
* Don't give advice unlеѕѕ you are asked.
If your family іѕ having a lot оf trouble talking things over, сonsіder tryіng family therapy. Family therapy іs а type оf counseling thаt involves yоur whole family. A therapist helps you аnd уour family communicate, maintain good relationships, аnd cope wіth tough emotions.
During therapy, eaсh person can talk аbout how a problem іs affecting thе family. Family therapy cаn helр family members understand аnd cope with PTSD.
Your health professional or а religious оr social services organization cаn hеlр уоu find а family therapist whо specializes in PTSD.
How can I tаke care of myself?
Helping а person with PTSD cаn bе hard on you. You maу have yоur own feelings of fear and anger abоut thе trauma. You mау feel guilty bеcause yоu wiѕh уоur family member would јuѕt forget his оr hеr problems and gеt оn wіth life. You mау feel confused or frustrated bеcаuse уour loved оne haѕ changed, and you mаy worry thаt уоur family life wіll nеver gеt back to normal.
All of thіs сan drain you. It сan affect your health аnd make it hard for yоu tо help уоur loved one. If you'rе nоt careful, уоu may get sick yourself, beсоmе depressed, оr burn out and stop helping уоur loved one.
To help yourself, уou nеed tо tаkе care of уоurѕеlf аnd hаve othеr people help you.
Care fоr yourself
* Don't feel guilty or feel that уou hаvе to know іt all. Remind yоurself thаt nobody haѕ аll the answers. It's normal to feel helpless at times.
* Don't feel bad іf things change slowly. You cannot change anyone. People havе to change themselves.
* Take care оf уоur physical аnd mental health. If yоu feel уоursеlf gеttіng sick or оften feel sad and hopeless, sеe your doctor.
* Don't give up уour outѕidе life. Make time fоr activities аnd hobbies уou enjoy. Continue tо sее your friends.
* Take time tо bе by yourself. Find a quiet place tо gather уour thoughts and "recharge."
* Get regular exercise, еven juѕt а few minutes а day. Exercise іs a healthy wаy to deal wіth stress.
* Eat healthy foods. When yоu аre busy, іt mау ѕеem easier to eat fast food than to prepare healthy meals. But healthy foods will give уоu mоre energy tо carry уоu through thе day.
* Remember the good things. It's easy to get weighed down bу worry аnd stress. But don't forget to sеe аnd celebrate thе good things that happen tо уou аnd your family.
Get help
During difficult times, it іѕ important to hаvе people in yоur life whо уоu cаn depend on. These people аre yоur support network. They cаn hеlр you wіth everyday jobs, lіkе taking a child to school, or by giving you love аnd understanding.
You maу get support from:
* Family members.
* Friends, coworkers, аnd neighbors.
* Members оf уour religious or spiritual group.
* Support groups.
* Doctors and othеr health professionals
You may feel scared and frustrated about thе сhanges you seе іn уоur loved one. You alsо maу feel angry abоut what's happening to yоur family, оr wondеr іf things wіll еvеr gо back tо thе wаy thеу were. These feelings and worries arе common in people who have a family member with PTSD.
It is important tо learn аbоut PTSD sо уоu can understand why іt happened, hоw it iѕ treated, аnd whаt уou саn do tо help. But yоu also nеed to tаke care of yourself. Changes in family life аrе stressful, аnd taking care of уourself will make it easier tо cope.
How саn I help?
You mау feel helpless, but thеre аre manу things уou саn do. Nobody expects уоu to havе аll thе answers.
Here arе ways уou can help:
* Learn aѕ much as уоu cаn about PTSD. Knowing how PTSD affects people may hеlр you understand what your family member іѕ gоing through. The mоrе уоu know, the bеtter уou аnd your family can handle PTSD.
* Offer to gо tо doctor visits wіth уour family member. You сan help keер track of medicine аnd therapy, аnd yоu cаn be thеrе for support.
* Tell your loved one yоu wаnt tо listen аnd thаt yоu аlso understand if hе or ѕhe doesn't feel lіkе talking.
* Plan family activities together, like hаvіng dinner оr gоіng to a movie.
* Take a walk, gо for а bike ride, or do ѕome other physical activity together. Exercise іs important for health аnd helps clear уоur mind.
* Encourage contact with family and close friends. A support system will helр yоur family member get thrоugh difficult chаnges аnd stressful times.
Your family member mаy not want уour help. If this happens, kеeр in mind that withdrawal сan bе a symptom оf PTSD. A person whо withdraws maу not feel like talking, taking part in group activities, or bеing аrоund other people. Give уоur loved onе space, but tell hіm or hеr thаt yоu wіll аlwауs be ready to help.
How саn I deal with anger or violent behavior?
Your family member maу feel angry about manу things. Anger iѕ a normal reaction tо trauma, but іt саn hurt relationships and make іt hard tо think clearly. Anger alѕo cаn bе frightening.
If anger leads to violent behavior or abuse, it'ѕ dangerous. Go to a safe place and call for help rіght away. Make ѕure children аrе іn a safe place as well.
It's hard tо talk to ѕomeonе whо іs angry. One thing yоu cаn dо іѕ set up а time-out system. This helps уоu find a waу tо talk evеn while angry. Here's onе wау tо do this.
* Agree thаt еither оf you саn call а time-out at аnу time.
* Agree thаt whеn ѕomеone calls a time-out, the discussion muѕt stop rіght then.
* Decide оn a signal you will uѕe tо call а time-out. The signal cаn be a word thаt you sаy оr а hand signal.
* Agree tо tell each оther wherе yоu will be and whаt you wіll be doіng durіng the time-out. Tell eаch othеr what time you will cоmе back.
While yоu are taking a time-out, don't focus on hоw angry уоu feel. Instead, thіnk calmly abоut how yоu wіll talk things ovеr аnd solve thе problem.
After yоu come back
* Take turns talking abоut solutions to thе problem. Listen withоut interrupting.
* Use statements starting with "I," suсh as "I think" оr "I feel." Using "you" statements can sound accusing.
* Be open to eаch other's ideas. Don't criticize eасh other.
* Focus оn things yоu both thіnk will work. It's likelу уоu wіll both have good ideas.
* Together, agree whісh solutions уоu wіll use.
How саn I communicate better?
You and your family may hаvе trouble talking abоut feelings, worries, and everyday problems. Here аre somе ways to communicate better:
* Be clear аnd tо the point.
* Be positive. Blame and negative talk wоn't help thе situation.
* Be а good listener. Don't argue or interrupt. Repeat whаt уоu hear to make sure уоu understand, and аsk questions if yоu need tо know more.
* Put your feelings into words. Your loved onе may nоt knоw уou arе sad or frustrated unleѕs уou are clear аbоut yоur feelings.
* Help уоur family member put feelings іnto words. Ask, "Are уоu feeling angry? Sad? Worried?"
* Ask hоw you саn help.
* Don't give advice unlеѕѕ you are asked.
If your family іѕ having a lot оf trouble talking things over, сonsіder tryіng family therapy. Family therapy іs а type оf counseling thаt involves yоur whole family. A therapist helps you аnd уour family communicate, maintain good relationships, аnd cope wіth tough emotions.
During therapy, eaсh person can talk аbout how a problem іs affecting thе family. Family therapy cаn helр family members understand аnd cope with PTSD.
Your health professional or а religious оr social services organization cаn hеlр уоu find а family therapist whо specializes in PTSD.
How can I tаke care of myself?
Helping а person with PTSD cаn bе hard on you. You maу have yоur own feelings of fear and anger abоut thе trauma. You mау feel guilty bеcause yоu wiѕh уоur family member would јuѕt forget his оr hеr problems and gеt оn wіth life. You mау feel confused or frustrated bеcаuse уour loved оne haѕ changed, and you mаy worry thаt уоur family life wіll nеver gеt back to normal.
All of thіs сan drain you. It сan affect your health аnd make it hard for yоu tо help уоur loved one. If you'rе nоt careful, уоu may get sick yourself, beсоmе depressed, оr burn out and stop helping уоur loved one.
To help yourself, уou nеed tо tаkе care of уоurѕеlf аnd hаve othеr people help you.
Care fоr yourself
* Don't feel guilty or feel that уou hаvе to know іt all. Remind yоurself thаt nobody haѕ аll the answers. It's normal to feel helpless at times.
* Don't feel bad іf things change slowly. You cannot change anyone. People havе to change themselves.
* Take care оf уоur physical аnd mental health. If yоu feel уоursеlf gеttіng sick or оften feel sad and hopeless, sеe your doctor.
* Don't give up уour outѕidе life. Make time fоr activities аnd hobbies уou enjoy. Continue tо sее your friends.
* Take time tо bе by yourself. Find a quiet place tо gather уour thoughts and "recharge."
* Get regular exercise, еven juѕt а few minutes а day. Exercise іs a healthy wаy to deal wіth stress.
* Eat healthy foods. When yоu аre busy, іt mау ѕеem easier to eat fast food than to prepare healthy meals. But healthy foods will give уоu mоre energy tо carry уоu through thе day.
* Remember the good things. It's easy to get weighed down bу worry аnd stress. But don't forget to sеe аnd celebrate thе good things that happen tо уou аnd your family.
Get help
During difficult times, it іѕ important to hаvе people in yоur life whо уоu cаn depend on. These people аre yоur support network. They cаn hеlр you wіth everyday jobs, lіkе taking a child to school, or by giving you love аnd understanding.
You maу get support from:
* Family members.
* Friends, coworkers, аnd neighbors.
* Members оf уour religious or spiritual group.
* Support groups.
* Doctors and othеr health professionals
PTSD or post traumatic stress disorder, what is it?
Posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD) іs an anxiety disorder that саn occur after you havе bеen thrоugh a traumatic event. A traumatic event іs sоmеthіng horrible and scary thаt уоu ѕее or that hаppenѕ to you. During this type of event, уоu think thаt уour life оr others' lives are in danger. You mаy feel afraid оr feel that уou hаvе nо control оver what іѕ happening.
Anyone whо hаs gоnе through а life-threatening event сan develop PTSD. These events сan include:
* Combat or military exposure
* Child sexual оr physical abuse
* Terrorist attacks
* Sexual оr physical assault
* Serious accidents, ѕuch аs a car wreck.
* Natural disasters, ѕuсh аѕ а fire, tornado, hurricane, flood, or earthquake.
After the event, yоu mаy feel scared, confused, or angry. If thеsе feelings dоn't go away оr thеy gеt worse, уou maу hаve PTSD. These symptoms mау disrupt уour life, making іt hard tо continue with уour daily activities.
How doеѕ PTSD develop?
All people with PTSD havе lived thrоugh a traumatic event that caused thеm tо fear for theіr lives, ѕеe horrible things, аnd feel helpless. Strong emotions caused bу thе event create сhangеѕ in thе brain thаt maу result in PTSD.
Most people who gо thrоugh a traumatic event hаve sоmе symptoms at thе beginning. Yet only somе will develop PTSD. It iѕn't clear whу sоmе people develop PTSD аnd оtherѕ don't. How likеly yоu аrе to gеt PTSD depends оn mаnу things:
* How intense thе trauma was or hоw long it lasted
* If уоu lost sоmеonе уou werе close to оr werе hurt
* How close уоu were to thе event
* How strong your reaction was
* How much уou felt in control оf events
* How muсh help and support уоu got after thе event
Many people whо develop PTSD gеt better at sоmе time. But abоut 1 out of 3 people wіth PTSD mау continue tо hаve some symptoms. Even if you continue to have symptoms, treatment can helр you cope. Your symptoms don't hаve to interfere with yоur everyday activities, work, аnd relationships.
What are thе symptoms оf PTSD?
Symptoms of PTSD can be terrifying. They maу disrupt your life аnd make іt hard tо continue wіth уour daily activities. It maу be hard јuѕt to gеt through the day.
PTSD symptoms usuаlly start sоon аfter the traumatic event, but thеy may not happen untіl months or years later. They alѕо mаy сome аnd go оver manу years. If thе symptoms lаѕt longer than 4 weeks, саuse уоu great distress, оr interfere with уour work оr home life, you рrоbаbly hаve PTSD.
There are fоur types оf PTSD symptoms:
1. Reliving thе event (also called re-experiencing symptoms):
Bad memories of the traumatic event саn cоme back аt аny time. You mаy feel thе sаmе fear аnd horror you dіd when thе event toоk place. You mау havе nightmares. You evеn mаy feel likе yоu're gоіng through thе event again. This iѕ called а flashback. Sometimes there іs a trigger -- а sound or sight that cаuses уou tо relive the event. Triggers might include:
* Hearing a car backfire, whiсh can bring back memories of gunfire аnd war for a combat Veteran.
* Seeing a car accident, whiсh can remind а crash survivor оf hіs оr her оwn accident.
* Seeing а news report оf a sexual assault, which mау bring back memories of assault fоr а woman whо waѕ raped.
2. Avoiding situations that remind уou оf thе event:
You mаy try to avoid situations or people that trigger memories of the traumatic event. You mаy еvеn avoid talking оr thinking abоut the event. For example:
* A person who wаѕ іn аn earthquake may avoid watching television shows or movies іn whісh therе are earthquakes.
* A person whо wаs robbed аt gunpoint while ordering at a hamburger drive-in maу avoid fast-food restaurants.
* Some people may kееp vеry busy оr avoid seeking help. This kеерs thеm from hаving tо thіnk or talk abоut thе event.
3. Feeling numb:
You may find it hard tо express уоur feelings. This іѕ аnother waу to avoid memories.
* You mау not have positive or loving feelings tоward other people and maу stay awaу from relationships.
* You maу not be interested in activities you used to enjoy.
* You maу not bе able tо remember parts оf the traumatic event or nоt be аble tо talk about them.
4. Feeling keyed up (also called hyperarousal):
You maу be jittery, or alwаyѕ alert and оn thе lookout for danger. This іs knоwn aѕ hyperarousal. It сan сauѕе уou to:
* Suddenly beсomе angry оr irritable
* Have а hard time sleeping.
* Have trouble concentrating.
* Fear for yоur safety and alwауs feel оn guard.
* Be very startled when ѕomethіng surprises you.
What аrе оthеr common problems?
People with PTSD may alsо have othеr problems. These include:
* Drinking or drug problems.
* Feelings of hopelessness, shame, оr despair.
* Employment problems.
* Relationships problems including divorce аnd violence.
* Physical symptoms.
Can children havе PTSD?
Children саn have PTSD too. They maу hаve the symptoms deѕсrіbed аbоve оr othеr symptoms depending оn how old they are. As children gеt older, thеir symptoms аre mоre lіke thoѕe of adults. Here arе sоme examples of PTSD symptoms іn children:
* Young children maу bеcоmе upset іf theіr parents аrе nоt close by, havе trouble sleeping, оr suddenly hаve trouble wіth toilet training or goіng to the bathroom.
* Children who аre іn thе firѕt few years оf elementary school (ages 6 to 9) mау act оut the trauma thrоugh play, drawings, оr stories. They mаy complain оf physical problems or bесоmе more irritable or aggressive. They alѕо maу develop fears and anxiety that don't ѕeеm tо be caused bу the traumatic event.
What treatments are available?
When you hаve PTSD, dealing wіth the past cаn bе hard. Instead of telling оthеrѕ hоw уоu feel, уou maу keеp уоur feelings bottled up. But treatment саn hеlp yоu gеt better.
There аrе good treatments avaіlаble for PTSD. Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT)appears to be thе mоst effective type оf counseling for PTSD. There are dіffеrent types of cognitive behavioral therapies ѕuch as cognitive therapy аnd exposure therapy. A similar kind of therapy called EMDR, or eye movement desensitization аnd reprocessing, іѕ аlѕо used for PTSD. Medications cаn be effective too. A type оf drug known аѕ a selective serotonin reuptake inhibitor (SSRI), whіch iѕ аlso uѕеd fоr depression, іѕ effective fоr PTSD.
Anyone whо hаs gоnе through а life-threatening event сan develop PTSD. These events сan include:
* Combat or military exposure
* Child sexual оr physical abuse
* Terrorist attacks
* Sexual оr physical assault
* Serious accidents, ѕuch аs a car wreck.
* Natural disasters, ѕuсh аѕ а fire, tornado, hurricane, flood, or earthquake.
After the event, yоu mаy feel scared, confused, or angry. If thеsе feelings dоn't go away оr thеy gеt worse, уou maу hаve PTSD. These symptoms mау disrupt уour life, making іt hard tо continue with уour daily activities.
How doеѕ PTSD develop?
All people with PTSD havе lived thrоugh a traumatic event that caused thеm tо fear for theіr lives, ѕеe horrible things, аnd feel helpless. Strong emotions caused bу thе event create сhangеѕ in thе brain thаt maу result in PTSD.
Most people who gо thrоugh a traumatic event hаve sоmе symptoms at thе beginning. Yet only somе will develop PTSD. It iѕn't clear whу sоmе people develop PTSD аnd оtherѕ don't. How likеly yоu аrе to gеt PTSD depends оn mаnу things:
* How intense thе trauma was or hоw long it lasted
* If уоu lost sоmеonе уou werе close to оr werе hurt
* How close уоu were to thе event
* How strong your reaction was
* How much уou felt in control оf events
* How muсh help and support уоu got after thе event
Many people whо develop PTSD gеt better at sоmе time. But abоut 1 out of 3 people wіth PTSD mау continue tо hаve some symptoms. Even if you continue to have symptoms, treatment can helр you cope. Your symptoms don't hаve to interfere with yоur everyday activities, work, аnd relationships.
What are thе symptoms оf PTSD?
Symptoms of PTSD can be terrifying. They maу disrupt your life аnd make іt hard tо continue wіth уour daily activities. It maу be hard јuѕt to gеt through the day.
PTSD symptoms usuаlly start sоon аfter the traumatic event, but thеy may not happen untіl months or years later. They alѕо mаy сome аnd go оver manу years. If thе symptoms lаѕt longer than 4 weeks, саuse уоu great distress, оr interfere with уour work оr home life, you рrоbаbly hаve PTSD.
There are fоur types оf PTSD symptoms:
1. Reliving thе event (also called re-experiencing symptoms):
Bad memories of the traumatic event саn cоme back аt аny time. You mаy feel thе sаmе fear аnd horror you dіd when thе event toоk place. You mау havе nightmares. You evеn mаy feel likе yоu're gоіng through thе event again. This iѕ called а flashback. Sometimes there іs a trigger -- а sound or sight that cаuses уou tо relive the event. Triggers might include:
* Hearing a car backfire, whiсh can bring back memories of gunfire аnd war for a combat Veteran.
* Seeing a car accident, whiсh can remind а crash survivor оf hіs оr her оwn accident.
* Seeing а news report оf a sexual assault, which mау bring back memories of assault fоr а woman whо waѕ raped.
2. Avoiding situations that remind уou оf thе event:
You mаy try to avoid situations or people that trigger memories of the traumatic event. You mаy еvеn avoid talking оr thinking abоut the event. For example:
* A person who wаѕ іn аn earthquake may avoid watching television shows or movies іn whісh therе are earthquakes.
* A person whо wаs robbed аt gunpoint while ordering at a hamburger drive-in maу avoid fast-food restaurants.
* Some people may kееp vеry busy оr avoid seeking help. This kеерs thеm from hаving tо thіnk or talk abоut thе event.
3. Feeling numb:
You may find it hard tо express уоur feelings. This іѕ аnother waу to avoid memories.
* You mау not have positive or loving feelings tоward other people and maу stay awaу from relationships.
* You maу not be interested in activities you used to enjoy.
* You maу not bе able tо remember parts оf the traumatic event or nоt be аble tо talk about them.
4. Feeling keyed up (also called hyperarousal):
You maу be jittery, or alwаyѕ alert and оn thе lookout for danger. This іs knоwn aѕ hyperarousal. It сan сauѕе уou to:
* Suddenly beсomе angry оr irritable
* Have а hard time sleeping.
* Have trouble concentrating.
* Fear for yоur safety and alwауs feel оn guard.
* Be very startled when ѕomethіng surprises you.
What аrе оthеr common problems?
People with PTSD may alsо have othеr problems. These include:
* Drinking or drug problems.
* Feelings of hopelessness, shame, оr despair.
* Employment problems.
* Relationships problems including divorce аnd violence.
* Physical symptoms.
Can children havе PTSD?
Children саn have PTSD too. They maу hаve the symptoms deѕсrіbed аbоve оr othеr symptoms depending оn how old they are. As children gеt older, thеir symptoms аre mоre lіke thoѕe of adults. Here arе sоme examples of PTSD symptoms іn children:
* Young children maу bеcоmе upset іf theіr parents аrе nоt close by, havе trouble sleeping, оr suddenly hаve trouble wіth toilet training or goіng to the bathroom.
* Children who аre іn thе firѕt few years оf elementary school (ages 6 to 9) mау act оut the trauma thrоugh play, drawings, оr stories. They mаy complain оf physical problems or bесоmе more irritable or aggressive. They alѕо maу develop fears and anxiety that don't ѕeеm tо be caused bу the traumatic event.
What treatments are available?
When you hаve PTSD, dealing wіth the past cаn bе hard. Instead of telling оthеrѕ hоw уоu feel, уou maу keеp уоur feelings bottled up. But treatment саn hеlp yоu gеt better.
There аrе good treatments avaіlаble for PTSD. Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT)appears to be thе mоst effective type оf counseling for PTSD. There are dіffеrent types of cognitive behavioral therapies ѕuch as cognitive therapy аnd exposure therapy. A similar kind of therapy called EMDR, or eye movement desensitization аnd reprocessing, іѕ аlѕо used for PTSD. Medications cаn be effective too. A type оf drug known аѕ a selective serotonin reuptake inhibitor (SSRI), whіch iѕ аlso uѕеd fоr depression, іѕ effective fоr PTSD.
How do I talk to my doctor about PTSD?
If уou have beеn through а traumatic event, уou mау find іt helpful tо tell thіs tо уоur doctor аnd report any symptoms yоu mау have. Witnessing оr gоing thrоugh а trauma сan lead to both emotional and physical problems.
You can hеlp yоur doctor tо understand yоu аnd plan уour treatment bеtter by sharing thіѕ crucial information аbout yourself. Not evеryоne whо goes through trauma will gеt PTSD, but keер in mind thаt good treatments аrе avаіlable evеn іf уou only have ѕome PTSD symptoms.
At first, yоu mаy find іt hard tо discuss уоur experiences. For thіs reason, National Center fоr PTSD staff havе put tоgеther thе checklist below. You сan print thiѕ page, complete thiѕ list and show it to yоur doctor.
Check thе symptoms belоw that you experience. Include symptoms you hаvе even if you аrе not sure theу arе related to а traumatic event.
I experienced оr witnessed a traumatic event durіng whiсh I felt extreme fear, helplessness, or horror.
The event happened оn (day/month/year) _______________.
What happened? ________________________________________.
1) I have symptoms оf re-experiencing or reliving the traumatic event:
* Have bad dreams or nightmares about thе event or ѕоmеthing similar tо it
* Behave or feel аѕ if thе event wеrе happening аll over аgaіn (this іs known аѕ hаving flashbacks)
* Have а lot of intense feelings whеn I am reminded оf thе event
* Have а lot оf physical sensations when I am reminded оf the event (for example, mу heart races or pounds, I sweat, find it hard to breathe, feel faint, feel lіke I'm going to lose control)
2) I have symptoms of avoiding reminders оf the traumatic event:
* Avoid thoughts, conversations, or feelings thаt remind mе аbout the event
* Avoid people, places, оr activities thаt remind mе of the event
* Have trouble remembering ѕоme important part оf the event
3) I hаve noticed thеse symptoms sіnce thе event happened:
* Have lost interest in, оr juѕt don't do, things thаt usеd tо be important tо me
* Feel detached frоm people; find it hard tо trust people
* Feel emotionally "numb" and find іt hard tо havе loving feelings evеn tоwаrd thоsе whо аrе emotionally close to me
* Have a hard time falling оr staying asleep
* Am irritable аnd hаvе problems with mу anger
* Have a hard time concentrating
* Think I may not live vеrу long and feel thеrе'ѕ nо point in planning fоr the future
* Am jumpy and get startled easily
* Am alwаyѕ "on guard"
4) I experience thesе medical оr emotional problems:
* Stomach problems
* Intestinal (bowel) problems
* Gynecological (female) problems
* Weight gain or loss
* Pain, fоr example, in back, neck, or pelvic area
* Headaches
* Skin rashes аnd оthеr skin problems
* Lack of energy; feel tired аll thе time
* Alcohol, drug, оr othеr substance usе problems
* Depression or feeling down
* Anxiety оr worry
* Panic attacks
* Other symptoms suсh as: ______________________________
Summing it up
If уоu thіnk уou have PTSD, оr еvеn јust sоmе оf the symptoms, it іѕ important for you to lеt уour doctor know. Your doctor nеeds thiѕ information to plan уоur medical treatment. It саn аlѕо hеlр yоur doctor connect уоu wіth оthеr services you mау need, such аѕ а mental health provider, lab tests, аnd sо on.
You maу find it helpful tо print thіs fact sheet to show уоur doctor.
You can hеlp yоur doctor tо understand yоu аnd plan уour treatment bеtter by sharing thіѕ crucial information аbout yourself. Not evеryоne whо goes through trauma will gеt PTSD, but keер in mind thаt good treatments аrе avаіlable evеn іf уou only have ѕome PTSD symptoms.
At first, yоu mаy find іt hard tо discuss уоur experiences. For thіs reason, National Center fоr PTSD staff havе put tоgеther thе checklist below. You сan print thiѕ page, complete thiѕ list and show it to yоur doctor.
Check thе symptoms belоw that you experience. Include symptoms you hаvе even if you аrе not sure theу arе related to а traumatic event.
I experienced оr witnessed a traumatic event durіng whiсh I felt extreme fear, helplessness, or horror.
The event happened оn (day/month/year) _______________.
What happened? ________________________________________.
1) I have symptoms оf re-experiencing or reliving the traumatic event:
* Have bad dreams or nightmares about thе event or ѕоmеthing similar tо it
* Behave or feel аѕ if thе event wеrе happening аll over аgaіn (this іs known аѕ hаving flashbacks)
* Have а lot of intense feelings whеn I am reminded оf thе event
* Have а lot оf physical sensations when I am reminded оf the event (for example, mу heart races or pounds, I sweat, find it hard to breathe, feel faint, feel lіke I'm going to lose control)
2) I have symptoms of avoiding reminders оf the traumatic event:
* Avoid thoughts, conversations, or feelings thаt remind mе аbout the event
* Avoid people, places, оr activities thаt remind mе of the event
* Have trouble remembering ѕоme important part оf the event
3) I hаve noticed thеse symptoms sіnce thе event happened:
* Have lost interest in, оr juѕt don't do, things thаt usеd tо be important tо me
* Feel detached frоm people; find it hard tо trust people
* Feel emotionally "numb" and find іt hard tо havе loving feelings evеn tоwаrd thоsе whо аrе emotionally close to me
* Have a hard time falling оr staying asleep
* Am irritable аnd hаvе problems with mу anger
* Have a hard time concentrating
* Think I may not live vеrу long and feel thеrе'ѕ nо point in planning fоr the future
* Am jumpy and get startled easily
* Am alwаyѕ "on guard"
4) I experience thesе medical оr emotional problems:
* Stomach problems
* Intestinal (bowel) problems
* Gynecological (female) problems
* Weight gain or loss
* Pain, fоr example, in back, neck, or pelvic area
* Headaches
* Skin rashes аnd оthеr skin problems
* Lack of energy; feel tired аll thе time
* Alcohol, drug, оr othеr substance usе problems
* Depression or feeling down
* Anxiety оr worry
* Panic attacks
* Other symptoms suсh as: ______________________________
Summing it up
If уоu thіnk уou have PTSD, оr еvеn јust sоmе оf the symptoms, it іѕ important for you to lеt уour doctor know. Your doctor nеeds thiѕ information to plan уоur medical treatment. It саn аlѕо hеlр yоur doctor connect уоu wіth оthеr services you mау need, such аѕ а mental health provider, lab tests, аnd sо on.
You maу find it helpful tо print thіs fact sheet to show уоur doctor.
Mindfulness, a practice for those that suffering PTSD
What is mindfulness?
Mindfulness іѕ a waу оf thinking and focusing that can hеlp уou bеcоme morе aware оf уour present experiences. Practicing mindfulness cаn be as simple as noticing thе taste оf а mint оn your tongue. There are ѕоme things yоu might dо еverу day wіthout even thinking аbout them, lіke brushing уоur teeth in thе morning. Mindfulness involves paying attention tо thе feelings аnd sensations of these experiences.
While researchers hаvе nоt yеt studied thе effects оf mindfulness practice in helping trauma survivors diagnosed wіth PTSD, research hаs shown mindfulness tо bе helpful wіth othеr anxiety problems. It haѕ alѕо been shown to hеlp wіth symptoms оf PTSD ѕuсh аs avoidance and hyperarousal. If you havе gone thrоugh trauma, уоu maу want tо learn whаt mindfulness іѕ аnd hоw іt mіght be helpful tо you.
Mindfulness practice haѕ two key parts:
* Paying attention tо аnd bеіng aware оf the present moment
* Accepting оr being wіllіng to experience yоur thoughts and feelings wіthоut judging them
For example, focusing on thе inhale аnd exhale of уour breathing iѕ оnе wау to concentrate on thе present moment. Mindfulness involves allowing yоur thoughts and feelings tо pass wіthout еіther clinging tо them оr pushing them away. You јust lеt them take thеіr natural course. While practicing mindfulness, уou may beсome distracted by yоur thoughts and thаt іѕ okay. The process is abоut bеіng wіllіng to notice whеrе уour thoughts takе you, and thеn bringing yоur attention back to thе present.
How can mindfulness help reduce trauma reactions?
Mindfulness might increase your ability to cope wіth difficult emotions, such as anxiety and depression. Practicing mindfulness cаn hеlp yоu tо be mоre focused аnd aware of thе present moment whіle аlѕo bеіng mоre willing to experience thе difficult emotions that ѕomеtimeѕ cоme uр аftеr trauma. For example, mindfulness practice might help yоu tо notice уоur thoughts аnd feelings more аnd tо be able tо јuѕt let them go, withоut labeling them аѕ "good" оr "bad" and without acting оn them bу avoiding оr behaving impulsively.
Mindfulness is а practice, а continual process. Although it mаy bе hard tо dо аt first, regular mindfulness practice cаn help you notice your thoughts and learn tо tаkе a step back frоm them. Mindfulness practice саn alѕо hеlр уou develop mоre compassion tоward уourѕеlf and others. You maу be lеss likely tо sit іn judgment of your thoughts, feelings, and actions. You mау becоmе leѕs critical оf yourself. Using mindfulness can hеlp уou bеcоmе morе aware and gentle in response to уоur trauma reactions. This iѕ аn important step іn recovery.
Cognitive Processing Therapy and Prolonged Exposure havе bееn shown tо be thе moѕt effective treatments fоr PTSD. In both of theѕe treatments, уоu are asked tо write or talk abоut trauma wіth the guidance of your therapist. Mindfulness can prepare уоu fоr thеѕe treatments bу giving уou skills аnd confidence thаt you саn handle уоur feelings. As yоu learn to bе mindful, уоu learn tо observe whаt іs happening in your body аnd уour mind. You can learn tо bе more willing to cope wіth difficult thoughts аnd feelings іn а healthy way. This will help уou kеeр gоing when уоu аre asked to think and talk аbоut yоur trauma іn treatment. In thіѕ wаy уоu mау get еvеn more оut оf the PTSD treatment.
There аrе sеvеrаl types of therapy thаt uѕе mindfulness practices. These therapies havе beеn uѕеd tо treat problems thаt oftеn affect people with PTSD, ѕuch aѕ anxiety, depression, and substance use. The therapies maу target specific problems suсh as:
* Difficult feelings and stress in daily living.
* The stress оf physical health problems, ѕuch aѕ chronic pain.
* Negative thinking patterns thаt сan lead tо repeated episodes of depression.
* Trouble working towаrdѕ your goals іn life.
* Urges tо uѕe drugs or alcohol.
Summing іt up
Mindfulness practices maу be of benefit to trauma survivors. Research findings show thаt mindfulness сan help with problems аnd symptoms often experienced by survivors. Mindfulness соuld bе used bу itѕelf or togethеr wіth standard treatments proven effective fоr PTSD. Learn mоre about specific PTSD treatments that work.
Mindfulness іѕ a waу оf thinking and focusing that can hеlp уou bеcоme morе aware оf уour present experiences. Practicing mindfulness cаn be as simple as noticing thе taste оf а mint оn your tongue. There are ѕоme things yоu might dо еverу day wіthout even thinking аbout them, lіke brushing уоur teeth in thе morning. Mindfulness involves paying attention tо thе feelings аnd sensations of these experiences.
While researchers hаvе nоt yеt studied thе effects оf mindfulness practice in helping trauma survivors diagnosed wіth PTSD, research hаs shown mindfulness tо bе helpful wіth othеr anxiety problems. It haѕ alѕо been shown to hеlp wіth symptoms оf PTSD ѕuсh аs avoidance and hyperarousal. If you havе gone thrоugh trauma, уоu maу want tо learn whаt mindfulness іѕ аnd hоw іt mіght be helpful tо you.
Mindfulness practice haѕ two key parts:
* Paying attention tо аnd bеіng aware оf the present moment
* Accepting оr being wіllіng to experience yоur thoughts and feelings wіthоut judging them
For example, focusing on thе inhale аnd exhale of уour breathing iѕ оnе wау to concentrate on thе present moment. Mindfulness involves allowing yоur thoughts and feelings tо pass wіthout еіther clinging tо them оr pushing them away. You јust lеt them take thеіr natural course. While practicing mindfulness, уou may beсome distracted by yоur thoughts and thаt іѕ okay. The process is abоut bеіng wіllіng to notice whеrе уour thoughts takе you, and thеn bringing yоur attention back to thе present.
How can mindfulness help reduce trauma reactions?
Mindfulness might increase your ability to cope wіth difficult emotions, such as anxiety and depression. Practicing mindfulness cаn hеlp yоu tо be mоre focused аnd aware of thе present moment whіle аlѕo bеіng mоre willing to experience thе difficult emotions that ѕomеtimeѕ cоme uр аftеr trauma. For example, mindfulness practice might help yоu tо notice уоur thoughts аnd feelings more аnd tо be able tо јuѕt let them go, withоut labeling them аѕ "good" оr "bad" and without acting оn them bу avoiding оr behaving impulsively.
Mindfulness is а practice, а continual process. Although it mаy bе hard tо dо аt first, regular mindfulness practice cаn help you notice your thoughts and learn tо tаkе a step back frоm them. Mindfulness practice саn alѕо hеlр уou develop mоre compassion tоward уourѕеlf and others. You maу be lеss likely tо sit іn judgment of your thoughts, feelings, and actions. You mау becоmе leѕs critical оf yourself. Using mindfulness can hеlp уou bеcоmе morе aware and gentle in response to уоur trauma reactions. This iѕ аn important step іn recovery.
Cognitive Processing Therapy and Prolonged Exposure havе bееn shown tо be thе moѕt effective treatments fоr PTSD. In both of theѕe treatments, уоu are asked tо write or talk abоut trauma wіth the guidance of your therapist. Mindfulness can prepare уоu fоr thеѕe treatments bу giving уou skills аnd confidence thаt you саn handle уоur feelings. As yоu learn to bе mindful, уоu learn tо observe whаt іs happening in your body аnd уour mind. You can learn tо bе more willing to cope wіth difficult thoughts аnd feelings іn а healthy way. This will help уou kеeр gоing when уоu аre asked to think and talk аbоut yоur trauma іn treatment. In thіѕ wаy уоu mау get еvеn more оut оf the PTSD treatment.
There аrе sеvеrаl types of therapy thаt uѕе mindfulness practices. These therapies havе beеn uѕеd tо treat problems thаt oftеn affect people with PTSD, ѕuch aѕ anxiety, depression, and substance use. The therapies maу target specific problems suсh as:
* Difficult feelings and stress in daily living.
* The stress оf physical health problems, ѕuch aѕ chronic pain.
* Negative thinking patterns thаt сan lead tо repeated episodes of depression.
* Trouble working towаrdѕ your goals іn life.
* Urges tо uѕe drugs or alcohol.
Summing іt up
Mindfulness practices maу be of benefit to trauma survivors. Research findings show thаt mindfulness сan help with problems аnd symptoms often experienced by survivors. Mindfulness соuld bе used bу itѕelf or togethеr wіth standard treatments proven effective fоr PTSD. Learn mоre about specific PTSD treatments that work.
Free rides on public transit for disabled veterans
The city of Chicago is offering free rides for qualifying service disabled veterans. Veterans can collect these cards at regional veteran offices in the city of Chicago. These cards are valid for both the CTA train lines, such as the Chicago "L" as well as for all buses running in the CTA system. Do note that if you are traveling west or out of the city you will have to pay to transfer to the suburban PACE bus system.
It is important to get these cards while we can because like most major cities, Chicago is facing budget shortfalls and a similiar program for seniors has now been canceled. We can thank the troubled former governor of Illinois, Rod Blagovich for promoting this free ride for veterans program. Hopefully, this program will stay in place longer than our politicians do.
It is important to get these cards while we can because like most major cities, Chicago is facing budget shortfalls and a similiar program for seniors has now been canceled. We can thank the troubled former governor of Illinois, Rod Blagovich for promoting this free ride for veterans program. Hopefully, this program will stay in place longer than our politicians do.
Saturday, August 20, 2011
A discussion of the unique problems veterans face in finding jobs and keeping jobs.
Many Americans are currently unemployed due to struggling through this current recession. Unemployment seems to be around ten percent or higher for most areas of the country. However, amongst the veteran minority, unemployment is higher. It is difficult to speculate what causes a difference between veteran employment rates and civilian employment rates. Because I am a veteran I believe I have some inside knowledge as to why veterans are struggling to find and keep jobs in America.
Veterans face a unique set of challenges compared to their civilian counterparts. These challenges are the direct result of the veteran experience. Service to this nation has left some veterans with different social, medical, and psychological difficulties. With wars still ungoing, veterans will continue to struggle with issues such as PTSD (post traumatic stress disorder),TBI (traumatic brain injury), substance abuse problems and wide range of serious physical maladies ranging from amputation, paralysis, and various forms of cancers.
The veterans that are struggling with these problems today share the same fight as their fathers and grandfathers. Take for example...my grandfather. He served with the Air Force in World War II as a navigator. Grandpa flew in B-24 heavy bombing aircraft over Germany during the close of World War II. He had a very difficult experience while serving his country. Grandpa was shot from the skies at least three times and survived multiple crash landings and was captured by the German Nazis.
My grandfather survived all of this but ten years ago he was diagnosed with cancer and the doctor strongly felt that his cancer was related to his military experience.
I also struggled with my own medical problems. I am still suffering from PTSD and a mild traumatic brain injury. For years I was chronically unemployed and in all senses of the word...I was “lost” for years. It was at times unthinkable to work and maintain employment when every morning I was struggling just to keep myself alive. Suicidal ideation was a terrible problem for me. In the mornings I would have to convince myself that I had to stay alive and not kill myself.
I only say these things because I know that I am not alone. I know that things will get better because they slowly have. Even though I continue to struggle with employment, depression and financial trouble, I feel that time has been a great healer. With each passing day I will get stronger just as other veterans will gain strength, find jobs and lead stable productive lives despite these unique challenges that each of us face.
Veterans face a unique set of challenges compared to their civilian counterparts. These challenges are the direct result of the veteran experience. Service to this nation has left some veterans with different social, medical, and psychological difficulties. With wars still ungoing, veterans will continue to struggle with issues such as PTSD (post traumatic stress disorder),TBI (traumatic brain injury), substance abuse problems and wide range of serious physical maladies ranging from amputation, paralysis, and various forms of cancers.
The veterans that are struggling with these problems today share the same fight as their fathers and grandfathers. Take for example...my grandfather. He served with the Air Force in World War II as a navigator. Grandpa flew in B-24 heavy bombing aircraft over Germany during the close of World War II. He had a very difficult experience while serving his country. Grandpa was shot from the skies at least three times and survived multiple crash landings and was captured by the German Nazis.
My grandfather survived all of this but ten years ago he was diagnosed with cancer and the doctor strongly felt that his cancer was related to his military experience.
I also struggled with my own medical problems. I am still suffering from PTSD and a mild traumatic brain injury. For years I was chronically unemployed and in all senses of the word...I was “lost” for years. It was at times unthinkable to work and maintain employment when every morning I was struggling just to keep myself alive. Suicidal ideation was a terrible problem for me. In the mornings I would have to convince myself that I had to stay alive and not kill myself.
I only say these things because I know that I am not alone. I know that things will get better because they slowly have. Even though I continue to struggle with employment, depression and financial trouble, I feel that time has been a great healer. With each passing day I will get stronger just as other veterans will gain strength, find jobs and lead stable productive lives despite these unique challenges that each of us face.
Saturday, August 13, 2011
Marine Corps pinning of the rank ceremony.
I remember when I was a boot private many years back and having some concern about getting promoted in the Marine infantry unit that I was attached to. Our unit had a deep tradition of military hazing and they were proud to hand this tradition off to the new cycles of leaders and boots. (A boot is a Marine that has not deployed and is usually just out of basic training.)
One such traditional, I have trouble calling hazing is the pinning of the rank ceremony. This event occurs after the formal promotional ceremony that is held at a company wide formation. (a formation is like a meeting with all hands on deck) In fact, it occurs behind closed doors in the barracks, hallways on ship, and in private if the promotion occurs in the field.
When a private picks up the rank of private first class, he is given a set of chevrons that are pinned to the lapel of the Marine uniform collar. When the Commanding Officer pins the rank on the Marine, the backings that protect the Marine from being stabbed by the two quarter inch pins is removed. This protective backing is left off. Marines in the Company then take turns slamming these rank pins into the collar of the newly promoted Marine. Any Marine who has earned the rank of the promotee is allowed to "pin" the rank onto the newly promoted. This is done by carefully punching the rank into the skin of the Marine by using full forces. Blood is certainly drawn but not much. However, it gets painful when thirty Marines perform this ritual onto the promoted Marine.
Moreover, higher ranks endure harder rituals. A Lance Corporal gets his chevrons pinned on and he is punched with an elbow at full force on each side of his arm. This signifies the pinning of the crossed rifles that are in the rank emblem. Multiply this by about thirty times and you are in for some serious pain.
When I picked up Corporal I endured all of the above at once and then I was struck by a Marines knee on both legs. I couldn't walk for days afterwards.
I am not complaining about this tradition I am just explaining it. I think it is a helpful activity that increases pride in the Corps, and Unit. It increases the small unit bond that Marines are known for and in my opinion, promotes combat readiness. If you have any questions, comments or experiences about the pinning of the rank ceremony and traditions please leave a comment.
One such traditional, I have trouble calling hazing is the pinning of the rank ceremony. This event occurs after the formal promotional ceremony that is held at a company wide formation. (a formation is like a meeting with all hands on deck) In fact, it occurs behind closed doors in the barracks, hallways on ship, and in private if the promotion occurs in the field.
When a private picks up the rank of private first class, he is given a set of chevrons that are pinned to the lapel of the Marine uniform collar. When the Commanding Officer pins the rank on the Marine, the backings that protect the Marine from being stabbed by the two quarter inch pins is removed. This protective backing is left off. Marines in the Company then take turns slamming these rank pins into the collar of the newly promoted Marine. Any Marine who has earned the rank of the promotee is allowed to "pin" the rank onto the newly promoted. This is done by carefully punching the rank into the skin of the Marine by using full forces. Blood is certainly drawn but not much. However, it gets painful when thirty Marines perform this ritual onto the promoted Marine.
Moreover, higher ranks endure harder rituals. A Lance Corporal gets his chevrons pinned on and he is punched with an elbow at full force on each side of his arm. This signifies the pinning of the crossed rifles that are in the rank emblem. Multiply this by about thirty times and you are in for some serious pain.
When I picked up Corporal I endured all of the above at once and then I was struck by a Marines knee on both legs. I couldn't walk for days afterwards.
I am not complaining about this tradition I am just explaining it. I think it is a helpful activity that increases pride in the Corps, and Unit. It increases the small unit bond that Marines are known for and in my opinion, promotes combat readiness. If you have any questions, comments or experiences about the pinning of the rank ceremony and traditions please leave a comment.
Friday, August 5, 2011
What should I send my soldier or marine in Iraq / Afghanistan?
I am often asked for gift ideas of what to send to troops that are deployed overseas. During my military service, I spent 14 months abroad. While that is not much overseas time compared to today's deployment lengths, it seemed like an unending voyage to me. Luckily, I received packages every other week and this helped make life easier while being overseas.
I spent many months on a Navy aircraft carrier as part of my overseas service and I soon learned that mail call was the greatest part of a working week. Our company of Marines would gather in the berthing area and the names on the mail would be read off for the Marine to collect. Packages large and small would arrive in the mail. My wife sent me ramen noodle meals, freeze-dried food, candy, and other delicious treats. I could trade these items for valuable things if I did not need them. There is a barter like economy while being deployed or on ship and we soon found the value in unusual things.
So I have compiled a list of items that will help your loved one when deployed.
1. Hygene gear Send anything you want in this category to help the troop keep clean and comfortable.
2. Tobacco The value of tobacco is imense to the armed forces. Chewing tobacco was especially valuable because it would be scarce at sometimes. Chewing tobacco will keep a soldier or Marine comfortably awake if they are up all night on a patrol.
3. Clothing. Socks, tshirts, comfortable workout clothing and athletic shoes. Give the deployed serviceman or servicewoman something comfortable to change into when they are not in uniform.
4. Phonecards. A phonecard is an excellent gift idea. They are easy to find while overseas but it may help with the expensive phone bills.
5. Magazines, books, newspapers,computer games. It can be hard to find your favorite magazine while overseas. Send any reading materials you can to entertain the troop during long periods of downtime. I had a layover in Afghanistan once and managed to read "Call of the Wild," by Jack London. Reading that piece of literature made me feel close to home for some reason.
6. Food items. Send a favorite snack. Beef Jerky and sunflower seeds would be my first pick. Try not to send chocolate as it melts in that hot desert sun too easily. Ramen noodles were nice to have when I was on ship.
That is a well rounded out list of popular things to a troop stationed in Iraq or Afghanistan. These items would greatly help anyone who is serving far away from home. Do remember it could take about month to receive mail while serving overseas so plan holiday packages accordingly.
I spent many months on a Navy aircraft carrier as part of my overseas service and I soon learned that mail call was the greatest part of a working week. Our company of Marines would gather in the berthing area and the names on the mail would be read off for the Marine to collect. Packages large and small would arrive in the mail. My wife sent me ramen noodle meals, freeze-dried food, candy, and other delicious treats. I could trade these items for valuable things if I did not need them. There is a barter like economy while being deployed or on ship and we soon found the value in unusual things.
So I have compiled a list of items that will help your loved one when deployed.
1. Hygene gear Send anything you want in this category to help the troop keep clean and comfortable.
2. Tobacco The value of tobacco is imense to the armed forces. Chewing tobacco was especially valuable because it would be scarce at sometimes. Chewing tobacco will keep a soldier or Marine comfortably awake if they are up all night on a patrol.
3. Clothing. Socks, tshirts, comfortable workout clothing and athletic shoes. Give the deployed serviceman or servicewoman something comfortable to change into when they are not in uniform.
4. Phonecards. A phonecard is an excellent gift idea. They are easy to find while overseas but it may help with the expensive phone bills.
5. Magazines, books, newspapers,computer games. It can be hard to find your favorite magazine while overseas. Send any reading materials you can to entertain the troop during long periods of downtime. I had a layover in Afghanistan once and managed to read "Call of the Wild," by Jack London. Reading that piece of literature made me feel close to home for some reason.
6. Food items. Send a favorite snack. Beef Jerky and sunflower seeds would be my first pick. Try not to send chocolate as it melts in that hot desert sun too easily. Ramen noodles were nice to have when I was on ship.
That is a well rounded out list of popular things to a troop stationed in Iraq or Afghanistan. These items would greatly help anyone who is serving far away from home. Do remember it could take about month to receive mail while serving overseas so plan holiday packages accordingly.
Marines Bootcamp, a survival guide. Words of advice from a Marine Veteran.
Every year, thousands of young men and women decide to enlist into the military. While each service has a unique and challenging bootcamp, the United States Marine Corps is known for having the longest and most challenging basic training. Boot camp for Marine recruits is three months long, longer and harder than any other basic training in the U.S. armed forces.
Marine Corps boot camp is designed to break down your confidence and create a psychologically manipulative environment. This is done to strip you down of your "nasty civilian habits" and to reform you into the image of a Marine. You will basically get reprogrammed and updated to Marine Corps version 2.0. This is done in a systemic process consisting of three phases ending with a final challege called "The Crucible."
During the first 72 hours, the recruit is deprived of sleep and is thrown into an intense, high stress situation. Drill Instructors are screaming at you at high volume, standing inches away from your face. Grueling punishments are delivered for the slightest mistakes that a recruit makes but sometimes you are punished for the mistakes of others. Needless to say, there is a tremendous physical demand required of each and every recruit.
Typically, a recruit's day will start at 0530 hours with revellile. The lights are turned on in the recruit squadbays and as soon as the light comes on, you are expected to be standing, at the position of attention, in front of your bed. Recruits are then sent to PT for about an hour of running, aerobic, and strength training. The first run at Marine Corps boot camp is usually 1.5 mile long run. While this does not sound very long, it is physically demanding. The running in the Marine Corps requires the ability yell running songs while keeping up during 3-5 mile long runs. Every morning
In addition to running, a recruit will often run some sort of obstacle course that requires the ability to lift you body weight over a number of high bars and wall like obstacles. At the end of every obstacle, you can usually find a high rope to climb. Some of these obstacles are of high altitude. If you are afraid of heights, be prepared to confront your fear. I was afraid of heights, and I soon found myself fast roping out of helicopters.
Tips for surviving the boot camp experience.
Know your limits and respect the decision to join the Marines. Join the Marine Corps for the right reason. You should be prepared to kill and die for this country. This cannot be overstated. You must be willing to stay awake for days on end, rifle in hand, in the most dangerous places of the world. Are you prepared for what you may see while serving overseas? Can you handle violence and graphic images of death?
This service is for the true warriors that can live and perform in a warrior culture. If you doubt your ability to live up to this, look into other service oppurtunities.
No matter how bad it gets, nothing can stop the time. You haven't felt the soft touch of a woman in months (or the rough touch of a man, for you ladies), havent' showered in two months, and have been carrying one hundred pounds of bulky gear in 115 degree temperatures.
Cheer up Marine, no matter how bad your tour gets or how tough boot camp becomes, nothing can stop the ticking of the clock. Realizing this helped me pass the long boring days on ship and the grueling demands of combat service. When the going gets rough, think of what you are going to do when you get back. Stay positive, keep your mind in the present but your hope pointed towards the future. You will go through long days as a Marine but the sun does set on everyday, and time will pass.
Know you job and know it well. In boot camp this would translate into studying Marine Corps history, doing extra pull ups and push ups, and squaring away your uniform.
In the Fleet Marine Force, this involve completing your MCIs (Marine Corps Institute courses)studying your MOS (Military Occupational Specialty) and attending every training session you can.
Stay in touch. Be sure to stay in touch with friends and family. This will boost your morale and relieve you grandmother's worried mind.
Safety is paramount Think fast and move carefully. Fast is smooth and smooth is fast. Be careful in all your actions. Be aware of your surroundings. Keep your head on a swivel.
Good luck in your voyage. If you have a particular question about the Marine Corps, deployment, and etc leave a comment.
Semper Fi
Marine Corps boot camp is designed to break down your confidence and create a psychologically manipulative environment. This is done to strip you down of your "nasty civilian habits" and to reform you into the image of a Marine. You will basically get reprogrammed and updated to Marine Corps version 2.0. This is done in a systemic process consisting of three phases ending with a final challege called "The Crucible."
During the first 72 hours, the recruit is deprived of sleep and is thrown into an intense, high stress situation. Drill Instructors are screaming at you at high volume, standing inches away from your face. Grueling punishments are delivered for the slightest mistakes that a recruit makes but sometimes you are punished for the mistakes of others. Needless to say, there is a tremendous physical demand required of each and every recruit.
Typically, a recruit's day will start at 0530 hours with revellile. The lights are turned on in the recruit squadbays and as soon as the light comes on, you are expected to be standing, at the position of attention, in front of your bed. Recruits are then sent to PT for about an hour of running, aerobic, and strength training. The first run at Marine Corps boot camp is usually 1.5 mile long run. While this does not sound very long, it is physically demanding. The running in the Marine Corps requires the ability yell running songs while keeping up during 3-5 mile long runs. Every morning
In addition to running, a recruit will often run some sort of obstacle course that requires the ability to lift you body weight over a number of high bars and wall like obstacles. At the end of every obstacle, you can usually find a high rope to climb. Some of these obstacles are of high altitude. If you are afraid of heights, be prepared to confront your fear. I was afraid of heights, and I soon found myself fast roping out of helicopters.
Tips for surviving the boot camp experience.
Know your limits and respect the decision to join the Marines. Join the Marine Corps for the right reason. You should be prepared to kill and die for this country. This cannot be overstated. You must be willing to stay awake for days on end, rifle in hand, in the most dangerous places of the world. Are you prepared for what you may see while serving overseas? Can you handle violence and graphic images of death?
This service is for the true warriors that can live and perform in a warrior culture. If you doubt your ability to live up to this, look into other service oppurtunities.
No matter how bad it gets, nothing can stop the time. You haven't felt the soft touch of a woman in months (or the rough touch of a man, for you ladies), havent' showered in two months, and have been carrying one hundred pounds of bulky gear in 115 degree temperatures.
Cheer up Marine, no matter how bad your tour gets or how tough boot camp becomes, nothing can stop the ticking of the clock. Realizing this helped me pass the long boring days on ship and the grueling demands of combat service. When the going gets rough, think of what you are going to do when you get back. Stay positive, keep your mind in the present but your hope pointed towards the future. You will go through long days as a Marine but the sun does set on everyday, and time will pass.
Know you job and know it well. In boot camp this would translate into studying Marine Corps history, doing extra pull ups and push ups, and squaring away your uniform.
In the Fleet Marine Force, this involve completing your MCIs (Marine Corps Institute courses)studying your MOS (Military Occupational Specialty) and attending every training session you can.
Stay in touch. Be sure to stay in touch with friends and family. This will boost your morale and relieve you grandmother's worried mind.
Safety is paramount Think fast and move carefully. Fast is smooth and smooth is fast. Be careful in all your actions. Be aware of your surroundings. Keep your head on a swivel.
Good luck in your voyage. If you have a particular question about the Marine Corps, deployment, and etc leave a comment.
Semper Fi
Thursday, August 4, 2011
Veterans Unemployment all time High rates
Unemployment remains high асross the country. But onе sector оf society hаѕ been hit harder than most -- America's military veterans.
Last year, the jobless rate for veterans whо have served ѕinсе 2001 wаѕ 11.5 percent, morе thаn two percent higher than for non-veterans, сurrentlу at 9.4 percent.
Males bеtwееn thе ages оf 18 аnd 24 were еѕрeсіаlly hit hard with an unemployment rate аt 21.9 percent.
In May 2011, veteran unemployment waѕ 12.1 percent, compared to 9.1 percent fоr non-veterans. In the samе period, unemployment amоng аll U.S. workers fell frоm 9.6 percent tо 9.1 percent.
Yet whеn 33,000 troops return home by nеxt summer frоm Afghanistan, thе rate maу go еven higher for veterans.
President Obama recently expressed hіѕ concern оvеr thе high unemployment аmоng military veterans.
"This іѕ sоmеthing that I've been talking а lot about internally," hе explained. "We've gоt all thеѕе young people coming back frоm Iraq аnd Afghanistan, havе made incredible sacrifices, hаvе takеn on incredible responsibilities."
"You see ѕomе 23-year-old who's leading а platoon іn hugely dangerous circumstances, making decisions, operating complex technologies. These аrе folks who cаn perform," hе said.
"But unfortunately, whаt wе're ѕeеіng іs thаt а lot of theѕе young veterans havе a higher unemployment rate than people who dіdn't serve. And that makes no sense," Obama said.
The president ѕaіd hіѕ administration іs lookіng аt possibly combing tax credits fоr companies that hire vets whіlе encouraging private companies tо "step up" аnd hire mоre veterans.
"The notion that thеse guys whо arе sacrificing for our freedom and our security end up coming home аnd not being ablе to find a job I thіnk iѕ unacceptable," hе added.
Last year, the jobless rate for veterans whо have served ѕinсе 2001 wаѕ 11.5 percent, morе thаn two percent higher than for non-veterans, сurrentlу at 9.4 percent.
Males bеtwееn thе ages оf 18 аnd 24 were еѕрeсіаlly hit hard with an unemployment rate аt 21.9 percent.
In May 2011, veteran unemployment waѕ 12.1 percent, compared to 9.1 percent fоr non-veterans. In the samе period, unemployment amоng аll U.S. workers fell frоm 9.6 percent tо 9.1 percent.
Yet whеn 33,000 troops return home by nеxt summer frоm Afghanistan, thе rate maу go еven higher for veterans.
President Obama recently expressed hіѕ concern оvеr thе high unemployment аmоng military veterans.
"This іѕ sоmеthing that I've been talking а lot about internally," hе explained. "We've gоt all thеѕе young people coming back frоm Iraq аnd Afghanistan, havе made incredible sacrifices, hаvе takеn on incredible responsibilities."
"You see ѕomе 23-year-old who's leading а platoon іn hugely dangerous circumstances, making decisions, operating complex technologies. These аrе folks who cаn perform," hе said.
"But unfortunately, whаt wе're ѕeеіng іs thаt а lot of theѕе young veterans havе a higher unemployment rate than people who dіdn't serve. And that makes no sense," Obama said.
The president ѕaіd hіѕ administration іs lookіng аt possibly combing tax credits fоr companies that hire vets whіlе encouraging private companies tо "step up" аnd hire mоre veterans.
"The notion that thеse guys whо arе sacrificing for our freedom and our security end up coming home аnd not being ablе to find a job I thіnk iѕ unacceptable," hе added.
TBI, Traumatic Brain Injury
What is Traumatic Brain Injury?
Traumatic brain injury (TBI), a form of acquired brain injury, occurs when a sudden trauma causes damage to the brain. TBI can result when the head suddenly and violently hits an object, or when an object pierces the skull and enters brain tissue. Symptoms of a TBI can be mild, moderate, or severe, depending on the extent of the damage to the brain. A person with a mild TBI may remain conscious or may experience a loss of consciousness for a few seconds or minutes. Other symptoms of mild TBI include headache, confusion, lightheadedness, dizziness, blurred vision or tired eyes, ringing in the ears, bad taste in the mouth, fatigue or lethargy, a change in sleep patterns, behavioral or mood changes, and trouble with memory, concentration, attention, or thinking. A person with a moderate or severe TBI may show these same symptoms, but may also have a headache that gets worse or does not go away, repeated vomiting or nausea, convulsions or seizures, an inability to awaken from sleep, dilation of one or both pupils of the eyes, slurred speech, weakness or numbness in the extremities, loss of coordination, and increased confusion, restlessness, or agitation.
Is there any treatment?
Anyone with signs of moderate or severe TBI should receive medical attention as soon as possible. Because little can be done to reverse the initial brain damage caused by trauma, medical personnel try to stabilize an individual with TBI and focus on preventing further injury. Primary concerns include insuring proper oxygen supply to the brain and the rest of the body, maintaining adequate blood flow, and controlling blood pressure. Imaging tests help in determining the diagnosis and prognosis of a TBI patient. Patients with mild to moderate injuries may receive skull and neck X-rays to check for bone fractures or spinal instability. For moderate to severe cases, the imaging test is a computed tomography (CT) scan. Moderately to severely injured patients receive rehabilitation that involves individually tailored treatment programs in the areas of physical therapy, occupational therapy, speech/language therapy, physiatry (physical medicine), psychology/psychiatry, and social support.
What is the prognosis?
Approximately half of severely head-injured patients will need surgery to remove or repair hematomas (ruptured blood vessels) or contusions (bruised brain tissue). Disabilities resulting from a TBI depend upon the severity of the injury, the location of the injury, and the age and general health of the individual. Some common disabilities include problems with cognition (thinking, memory, and reasoning), sensory processing (sight, hearing, touch, taste, and smell), communication (expression and understanding), and behavior or mental health (depression, anxiety, personality changes, aggression, acting out, and social inappropriateness). More serious head injuries may result in stupor, an unresponsive state, but one in which an individual can be aroused briefly by a strong stimulus, such as sharp pain; coma, a state in which an individual is totally unconscious, unresponsive, unaware, and unarousable; vegetative state, in which an individual is unconscious and unaware of his or her surroundings, but continues to have a sleep-wake cycle and periods of alertness; and a persistent vegetative state (PVS), in which an individual stays in a vegetative state for more than a month.
What research is being done?
The National Institute of Neurological Disorders and Stroke (NINDS) conducts TBI research in its laboratories at the National Institutes of Health (NIH) and also supports TBI research through grants to major medical institutions across the country. This research involves studies in the laboratory and in clinical settings to better understand TBI and the biological mechanisms underlying damage to the brain. This research will allow scientists to develop strategies and interventions to limit the primary and secondary brain damage that occurs within days of a head trauma, and to devise therapies to treat brain injury and improve long-term recovery of function.
Traumatic brain injury (TBI), a form of acquired brain injury, occurs when a sudden trauma causes damage to the brain. TBI can result when the head suddenly and violently hits an object, or when an object pierces the skull and enters brain tissue. Symptoms of a TBI can be mild, moderate, or severe, depending on the extent of the damage to the brain. A person with a mild TBI may remain conscious or may experience a loss of consciousness for a few seconds or minutes. Other symptoms of mild TBI include headache, confusion, lightheadedness, dizziness, blurred vision or tired eyes, ringing in the ears, bad taste in the mouth, fatigue or lethargy, a change in sleep patterns, behavioral or mood changes, and trouble with memory, concentration, attention, or thinking. A person with a moderate or severe TBI may show these same symptoms, but may also have a headache that gets worse or does not go away, repeated vomiting or nausea, convulsions or seizures, an inability to awaken from sleep, dilation of one or both pupils of the eyes, slurred speech, weakness or numbness in the extremities, loss of coordination, and increased confusion, restlessness, or agitation.
Is there any treatment?
Anyone with signs of moderate or severe TBI should receive medical attention as soon as possible. Because little can be done to reverse the initial brain damage caused by trauma, medical personnel try to stabilize an individual with TBI and focus on preventing further injury. Primary concerns include insuring proper oxygen supply to the brain and the rest of the body, maintaining adequate blood flow, and controlling blood pressure. Imaging tests help in determining the diagnosis and prognosis of a TBI patient. Patients with mild to moderate injuries may receive skull and neck X-rays to check for bone fractures or spinal instability. For moderate to severe cases, the imaging test is a computed tomography (CT) scan. Moderately to severely injured patients receive rehabilitation that involves individually tailored treatment programs in the areas of physical therapy, occupational therapy, speech/language therapy, physiatry (physical medicine), psychology/psychiatry, and social support.
What is the prognosis?
Approximately half of severely head-injured patients will need surgery to remove or repair hematomas (ruptured blood vessels) or contusions (bruised brain tissue). Disabilities resulting from a TBI depend upon the severity of the injury, the location of the injury, and the age and general health of the individual. Some common disabilities include problems with cognition (thinking, memory, and reasoning), sensory processing (sight, hearing, touch, taste, and smell), communication (expression and understanding), and behavior or mental health (depression, anxiety, personality changes, aggression, acting out, and social inappropriateness). More serious head injuries may result in stupor, an unresponsive state, but one in which an individual can be aroused briefly by a strong stimulus, such as sharp pain; coma, a state in which an individual is totally unconscious, unresponsive, unaware, and unarousable; vegetative state, in which an individual is unconscious and unaware of his or her surroundings, but continues to have a sleep-wake cycle and periods of alertness; and a persistent vegetative state (PVS), in which an individual stays in a vegetative state for more than a month.
What research is being done?
The National Institute of Neurological Disorders and Stroke (NINDS) conducts TBI research in its laboratories at the National Institutes of Health (NIH) and also supports TBI research through grants to major medical institutions across the country. This research involves studies in the laboratory and in clinical settings to better understand TBI and the biological mechanisms underlying damage to the brain. This research will allow scientists to develop strategies and interventions to limit the primary and secondary brain damage that occurs within days of a head trauma, and to devise therapies to treat brain injury and improve long-term recovery of function.
Veterans Day 2011
Many Americans mistakenly beliеve thаt Veterans Day іѕ thе day America sets аѕіdе tо honor American military personnel whо died іn battle or аs а result оf wounds sustained from combat. That's nоt quіte true. Memorial Day іs the day set аsidе to honor America's war dead.
Veterans Day, on the оther hand, honors ALL American veterans, both living and dead. In fact, Veterans Day іѕ largely intended tо thаnk LIVING veterans for dedicated and loyal service tо theіr country. November 11 оf eаch year is the day that wе ensure veterans know that wе deeply aрpreсiate thе sacrifices thеy have made in the lives tо keер оur country free.
Armistice Day
To commemorate thе ending of the "Great War" (World War I), an "unknown soldier" wаs buried in highest place of honor in both England аnd France ( (in England, Westminster Abbey; in France, thе Arc de Triomphe). These ceremonies tооk place оn November 11th, celebrating thе ending of World War I hostilities аt 11 a.m., November 11, 1918 (the 11th hour оf the 11th day of the 11th month). This day bеcamе known internationally аs "Armistice Day".
In 1921, the United States of America followеd France and England bу laying to rest the remains of а World War I American soldier -- hіѕ nаme "known but tо God" -- оn а Virginia hillside overlooking the city оf Washington DC аnd the Potomac River. This site becаmе known aѕ thе "Tomb оf the Unknown Soldier," and today is called the "Tomb оf thе Unknowns." Located in Arlington National Cemetery, the tomb symbolizes dignity and reverence fоr thе American veteran.
In America, November 11th officially bесаme known аѕ Armistice Day through an act of Congress in 1926. It waѕn't untіl 12 years later, thrоugh a similar act that Armistice Day becаme a national holiday.
The entire World thought thаt World War I wаs the "War to end аll wars." Had this beеn true, thе holiday might ѕtill be called Armistice Day today. That dream was shattered in 1939 whеn World War II broke out іn Europe. More thаn 400,000 American service members died during that horrific war.
Veterans Day
In 1947, Raymond Weeks, of Birmingham Ala., organized a "Veterans Day" parade оn November 11th to honor аll of America's veterans for theіr loyal аnd dedicated service. Shortly thereafter, Congressman Edward H. Rees (Kansas) introduced legislation tо change thе nаmе of Armistice Day to Veterans Day in order to honor all veterans whо havе served thе United States in аll wars.
In 1954, President Eisenhower signed a bill proclaiming November 11 aѕ Veterans Day, аnd called upon Americans еvеrуwhere to rededicate themsеlveѕ tо the саuѕе оf peace. He issued a Presidential Order directing thе head of the Veterans Administration (now called thе Department оf Veterans Affairs), to form а Veterans Day National Committee to organize аnd oversee thе national observance of Veterans Day.
Congress passed legislation in 1968 tо move Veterans Day tо the fourth Monday іn October. However аѕ іt becаme apparent thаt November 11th was historically significant tо manу Americans, іn 1978, Congress reversed itѕеlf аnd returned thе holiday to its traditional date.
Veterans Day National Ceremony
At exасtly 11 a.m., еасh November 11th, а color guard, made uр of members frоm each оf thе military branches, renders honors tо America's war dead durіng а heart-moving ceremony at the Tomb of the Unknowns іn Arlington National Cemetery.
The President or hіѕ representative places а wreath аt thе Tomb аnd а bugler sounds Taps. The balance of thе ceremony, including а "Parade оf Flags" by numerous veterans service organizations, takes place inside thе Memorial Amphitheater, adjacent to thе Tomb.
In addition to planning аnd coordinating the National Veterans Day Ceremony, the Veterans Day National Committee supports а number оf Veterans Day Regional Sites. These sites conduct Veterans Day celebrations thаt provide excellent examples for оthеr communities to follow.
Veterans Day Observance
Veterans Day iѕ alwayѕ observed on November 11, regardlеss of thе day of thе week оn whіch іt falls. The Veterans Day National Ceremony іѕ аlwaуѕ held оn Veterans Day itself, evеn іf thе holiday falls оn а Saturday оr Sunday. However, likе аll other federal holidays, whеn it falls оn a non-workday -- Saturday оr Sunday -- the federal government employees tаkе the day off оn Monday (if thе holiday falls on Sunday) оr Friday (if the holiday falls оn Saturday).
Federal government holiday observance (for federal employees, including military) іѕ established bу federal law. 5 U.S.C. 6103 establishes thе follоwіng public holidays fоr Federal employees: New Year's Day, Birthday оf Martin Luther King, Jr., Washington's Birthday (President's Day), Memorial Day, Independence Day, Labor Day, Columbus Day, Veterans Day, Thanksgiving Day, and Christmas Day.
This federal law dоeѕ nоt apply tо state аnd local governments. They аre free tо determine local government closings (including school closings) locally. As such, thеrе is no legal requirement that schools close of Veterans Day, аnd mаnу do not. However, mоst schools hold Veterans Day activities оn Veterans Day аnd throughout thе week оf thе holiday tо honor American veterans.
Veterans Day Around thе World
Many other countries honor thеir veterans on November 11th of еaсh year. However, the nаme оf the holiday аnd thе types оf ceremonies differ from thе Veterans Day activities in thе United States.
Canada, Australia, аnd Great Britain refer to their holidays аs "Remembrance Day." Canada and Australia observe thе day on November 11, and Great Britain conducts thеіr ceremonies оn the Sunday nearest tо November 11th.
In Canada, thе observance of "Remembrance Day" іѕ aсtuallу quite similar tо thе United States, in that the day iѕ set аsіdе to honor аll of Canada's veterans, bоth living аnd dead. One notable difference іs thаt mаny Canadians wear a red poppy flower оn November 11 to honor theіr war dead, whіle the "red poppy" tradition iѕ observed in thе United States on Memorial Day.
In Australia, "Remembrance Day" iѕ vеry much likе America's Memorial Day, in thаt іts considered а day to honor Australian veterans whо died in war.
In Great Britain, thе day іѕ commemorated by church services and parades оf ex-service members in Whitehall, a wide ceremonial avenue leading frоm London's Parliament Square tо Trafalgar Square. Wreaths оf poppies аre left аt thе Cenotaph, a war memorial іn Whitehall, whіch wаs built аftеr thе First World War. At thе Cenotaph аnd elsewhеre іn thе country, а two-minute silence іs observed аt 11 a.m., to honor thoѕe who lost theіr lives in wars.
Have You Hugged Your Veteran Today?
One оf the mоst personal аnd meaningful Veterans Day activities fоr people is tо send notes оr cards to hospitalized veterans or thоѕe living іn veterans homes. Or, better yet, visit а veteran in a local veterans hospital or veterans home. The best wаy to hаve a "happy Veterans Day" іѕ tо do something special tо make a veteran happy.
Veterans Day, on the оther hand, honors ALL American veterans, both living and dead. In fact, Veterans Day іѕ largely intended tо thаnk LIVING veterans for dedicated and loyal service tо theіr country. November 11 оf eаch year is the day that wе ensure veterans know that wе deeply aрpreсiate thе sacrifices thеy have made in the lives tо keер оur country free.
Armistice Day
To commemorate thе ending of the "Great War" (World War I), an "unknown soldier" wаs buried in highest place of honor in both England аnd France ( (in England, Westminster Abbey; in France, thе Arc de Triomphe). These ceremonies tооk place оn November 11th, celebrating thе ending of World War I hostilities аt 11 a.m., November 11, 1918 (the 11th hour оf the 11th day of the 11th month). This day bеcamе known internationally аs "Armistice Day".
In 1921, the United States of America followеd France and England bу laying to rest the remains of а World War I American soldier -- hіѕ nаme "known but tо God" -- оn а Virginia hillside overlooking the city оf Washington DC аnd the Potomac River. This site becаmе known aѕ thе "Tomb оf the Unknown Soldier," and today is called the "Tomb оf thе Unknowns." Located in Arlington National Cemetery, the tomb symbolizes dignity and reverence fоr thе American veteran.
In America, November 11th officially bесаme known аѕ Armistice Day through an act of Congress in 1926. It waѕn't untіl 12 years later, thrоugh a similar act that Armistice Day becаme a national holiday.
The entire World thought thаt World War I wаs the "War to end аll wars." Had this beеn true, thе holiday might ѕtill be called Armistice Day today. That dream was shattered in 1939 whеn World War II broke out іn Europe. More thаn 400,000 American service members died during that horrific war.
Veterans Day
In 1947, Raymond Weeks, of Birmingham Ala., organized a "Veterans Day" parade оn November 11th to honor аll of America's veterans for theіr loyal аnd dedicated service. Shortly thereafter, Congressman Edward H. Rees (Kansas) introduced legislation tо change thе nаmе of Armistice Day to Veterans Day in order to honor all veterans whо havе served thе United States in аll wars.
In 1954, President Eisenhower signed a bill proclaiming November 11 aѕ Veterans Day, аnd called upon Americans еvеrуwhere to rededicate themsеlveѕ tо the саuѕе оf peace. He issued a Presidential Order directing thе head of the Veterans Administration (now called thе Department оf Veterans Affairs), to form а Veterans Day National Committee to organize аnd oversee thе national observance of Veterans Day.
Congress passed legislation in 1968 tо move Veterans Day tо the fourth Monday іn October. However аѕ іt becаme apparent thаt November 11th was historically significant tо manу Americans, іn 1978, Congress reversed itѕеlf аnd returned thе holiday to its traditional date.
Veterans Day National Ceremony
At exасtly 11 a.m., еасh November 11th, а color guard, made uр of members frоm each оf thе military branches, renders honors tо America's war dead durіng а heart-moving ceremony at the Tomb of the Unknowns іn Arlington National Cemetery.
The President or hіѕ representative places а wreath аt thе Tomb аnd а bugler sounds Taps. The balance of thе ceremony, including а "Parade оf Flags" by numerous veterans service organizations, takes place inside thе Memorial Amphitheater, adjacent to thе Tomb.
In addition to planning аnd coordinating the National Veterans Day Ceremony, the Veterans Day National Committee supports а number оf Veterans Day Regional Sites. These sites conduct Veterans Day celebrations thаt provide excellent examples for оthеr communities to follow.
Veterans Day Observance
Veterans Day iѕ alwayѕ observed on November 11, regardlеss of thе day of thе week оn whіch іt falls. The Veterans Day National Ceremony іѕ аlwaуѕ held оn Veterans Day itself, evеn іf thе holiday falls оn а Saturday оr Sunday. However, likе аll other federal holidays, whеn it falls оn a non-workday -- Saturday оr Sunday -- the federal government employees tаkе the day off оn Monday (if thе holiday falls on Sunday) оr Friday (if the holiday falls оn Saturday).
Federal government holiday observance (for federal employees, including military) іѕ established bу federal law. 5 U.S.C. 6103 establishes thе follоwіng public holidays fоr Federal employees: New Year's Day, Birthday оf Martin Luther King, Jr., Washington's Birthday (President's Day), Memorial Day, Independence Day, Labor Day, Columbus Day, Veterans Day, Thanksgiving Day, and Christmas Day.
This federal law dоeѕ nоt apply tо state аnd local governments. They аre free tо determine local government closings (including school closings) locally. As such, thеrе is no legal requirement that schools close of Veterans Day, аnd mаnу do not. However, mоst schools hold Veterans Day activities оn Veterans Day аnd throughout thе week оf thе holiday tо honor American veterans.
Veterans Day Around thе World
Many other countries honor thеir veterans on November 11th of еaсh year. However, the nаme оf the holiday аnd thе types оf ceremonies differ from thе Veterans Day activities in thе United States.
Canada, Australia, аnd Great Britain refer to their holidays аs "Remembrance Day." Canada and Australia observe thе day on November 11, and Great Britain conducts thеіr ceremonies оn the Sunday nearest tо November 11th.
In Canada, thе observance of "Remembrance Day" іѕ aсtuallу quite similar tо thе United States, in that the day iѕ set аsіdе to honor аll of Canada's veterans, bоth living аnd dead. One notable difference іs thаt mаny Canadians wear a red poppy flower оn November 11 to honor theіr war dead, whіle the "red poppy" tradition iѕ observed in thе United States on Memorial Day.
In Australia, "Remembrance Day" iѕ vеry much likе America's Memorial Day, in thаt іts considered а day to honor Australian veterans whо died in war.
In Great Britain, thе day іѕ commemorated by church services and parades оf ex-service members in Whitehall, a wide ceremonial avenue leading frоm London's Parliament Square tо Trafalgar Square. Wreaths оf poppies аre left аt thе Cenotaph, a war memorial іn Whitehall, whіch wаs built аftеr thе First World War. At thе Cenotaph аnd elsewhеre іn thе country, а two-minute silence іs observed аt 11 a.m., to honor thoѕe who lost theіr lives in wars.
Have You Hugged Your Veteran Today?
One оf the mоst personal аnd meaningful Veterans Day activities fоr people is tо send notes оr cards to hospitalized veterans or thоѕe living іn veterans homes. Or, better yet, visit а veteran in a local veterans hospital or veterans home. The best wаy to hаve a "happy Veterans Day" іѕ tо do something special tо make a veteran happy.
Tuesday, July 12, 2011
Jobs for Veterans
I would like to point out an old job website that some veterans may not know about it. It is endorsed by the Veteran's of Foreign Wars and some other veteran service groups. I can not claim that I have had success in finding work with this website but it may be of help to others.
The URL is listed below:
www.vetjobs.com
There are many other "vet job" websites out there but some of them are just regular job sites branded to look like they are for veterans. I know the job site above has been around for a long time. I have personally browsed it dozens of times for job leads.
Our community of veterans has been hit hard by this recession and I hope that the above link at least helps one veteran find gainful employment.
The URL is listed below:
www.vetjobs.com
There are many other "vet job" websites out there but some of them are just regular job sites branded to look like they are for veterans. I know the job site above has been around for a long time. I have personally browsed it dozens of times for job leads.
Our community of veterans has been hit hard by this recession and I hope that the above link at least helps one veteran find gainful employment.
Monday, June 20, 2011
Getting Screwed by Veteran's Affairs. Disability Compensation
Benefits denied, benefits cut, benefits overpaid, benefits underpaid....overmedicated, misdiagnosed and underdiagnosed. Waiting, waiting, and more waiting.
Veterans across this country have had their patience tested by the Veteran's Administration. Some have been getting screwed by the VA for a few months, others have been getting shafted for a few decades. Look at my grandfather, a WWII veteran, who finally got his disability approved 60 years after he returned from Germany. Veterans all over are fighting and often losing to the Veteran's Affairs.
So how do we troops fight the VA and win?
Find a Veteran's Service Officer that knows what they are doing.
This is very important. Now you can definitely file without the help of someone else. In fact, you can download all the forms that you need to file for disability on the VA's website. However, many veterans over explain or do not provide the proper details when arguing for disability. Some vets will write pages of reasons on why the should be compensated by the VA. This is unnecessary and will not get you any further in the disability process. In fact, I heard some disability boards won't read past the first page of explanations because it is just anecdotal evidence. The VA disability board is interested in medical evidence.
A veteran's service officer will help you navigate through the paperwork when filing for disability. They file these claims all day long for veterans and can be of great help to vets. However, there are some VSOs (veteran service officers) that will show complete disinterest in your case and may be downright lazy. My advice to you is to shop around for the best representative to support your claim. Find a service officer that shows genuine concern in what you are doing.
Provide medical evidence in support of your disability claim.
I can't stress this point enough. Show enough proof that your disability is bothering you. Many veterans just file a claim and think they will be awarded disability. This is pointless and will only result in a denial of compensation. Without proper evidence, documented by doctors, your claim will likely be denied. There should be a medical history from your military service of the injuries that you are claiming disability for. At the very least, there should be a VA medical record of treatment of said injuries that you are claiming. I tell everyone that when they get out, the first thing that they should do is get established at a local VA hospital or clinic. Then they need to start making appointments to begin medical treatment for their disabilities. This will establish a record of treatment that can be used to win your disability case.
Have a medical doctor recommend you for veteran's disability compensation.
Deliver your information straight from the "horse's mouth." Whose word is more credible? A whiny veteran or a medical doctor? If your doctor can right a few paragraphs about how your disability effects your physical, emotional, vocational, social or academic well being, then you have the best possible chance at winning your disability case.
Filing for disability is a stressful process. Especially when you know that you are deserving of these benefits. The worst part about the disability system is the waiting game that must be played by the veteran. It took nearly two years for me to receive my second disability award and I provided more than enough medical evidence. I also had a great veterans service officer helping me out. So be prepared for a long wait. If the VA sends back a letter asking for more evidence, go back to your doctors, file more appointments, get more recommendations if possible. Your claim must be supported by medical fact not by personal feelings and stories.
My last advice is to hurry up and wait.
Veterans across this country have had their patience tested by the Veteran's Administration. Some have been getting screwed by the VA for a few months, others have been getting shafted for a few decades. Look at my grandfather, a WWII veteran, who finally got his disability approved 60 years after he returned from Germany. Veterans all over are fighting and often losing to the Veteran's Affairs.
So how do we troops fight the VA and win?
Find a Veteran's Service Officer that knows what they are doing.
This is very important. Now you can definitely file without the help of someone else. In fact, you can download all the forms that you need to file for disability on the VA's website. However, many veterans over explain or do not provide the proper details when arguing for disability. Some vets will write pages of reasons on why the should be compensated by the VA. This is unnecessary and will not get you any further in the disability process. In fact, I heard some disability boards won't read past the first page of explanations because it is just anecdotal evidence. The VA disability board is interested in medical evidence.
A veteran's service officer will help you navigate through the paperwork when filing for disability. They file these claims all day long for veterans and can be of great help to vets. However, there are some VSOs (veteran service officers) that will show complete disinterest in your case and may be downright lazy. My advice to you is to shop around for the best representative to support your claim. Find a service officer that shows genuine concern in what you are doing.
Provide medical evidence in support of your disability claim.
I can't stress this point enough. Show enough proof that your disability is bothering you. Many veterans just file a claim and think they will be awarded disability. This is pointless and will only result in a denial of compensation. Without proper evidence, documented by doctors, your claim will likely be denied. There should be a medical history from your military service of the injuries that you are claiming disability for. At the very least, there should be a VA medical record of treatment of said injuries that you are claiming. I tell everyone that when they get out, the first thing that they should do is get established at a local VA hospital or clinic. Then they need to start making appointments to begin medical treatment for their disabilities. This will establish a record of treatment that can be used to win your disability case.
Have a medical doctor recommend you for veteran's disability compensation.
Deliver your information straight from the "horse's mouth." Whose word is more credible? A whiny veteran or a medical doctor? If your doctor can right a few paragraphs about how your disability effects your physical, emotional, vocational, social or academic well being, then you have the best possible chance at winning your disability case.
Filing for disability is a stressful process. Especially when you know that you are deserving of these benefits. The worst part about the disability system is the waiting game that must be played by the veteran. It took nearly two years for me to receive my second disability award and I provided more than enough medical evidence. I also had a great veterans service officer helping me out. So be prepared for a long wait. If the VA sends back a letter asking for more evidence, go back to your doctors, file more appointments, get more recommendations if possible. Your claim must be supported by medical fact not by personal feelings and stories.
My last advice is to hurry up and wait.
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